I cut off a toxic person... And then he came back? What the heck?
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I am only human, and it is hard NOT to wonder about people whom you've known for a really long time. Yes, I am allowed to wonder about it - doesn't mean it goes beyond that. I do consider dropping avenues for contact is a means to drop contact. But, as we all know in the society of endless ways to contact a person, you can't predict how someone can communicate with you. He had a secondary email account I didn't have on my contact list, so I did not know to block it.
You don't need to defend yourself here. There is NOTHING wrong with having a loving, charitable heart.
I am only human, and it is hard NOT to wonder about people whom you've known for a really long time. Yes, I am allowed to wonder about it - doesn't mean it goes beyond that. I do consider dropping avenues for contact is a means to drop contact. But, as we all know in the society of endless ways to contact a person, you can't predict how someone can communicate with you. He had a secondary email account I didn't have on my contact list, so I did not know to block it.
Question, OP? how many times have you broken up with him prior ?
Question, OP? how many times have you broken up with him prior ?
We never dated. He was a friend I met through other friends in 2006-2007 time frame. I was married at the time and lived 600 miles away. Just friends, both in committed situations for most of the time we have known each other. When my ex and I split, this friend helped me out with moving and such and we talked regularly because he was also going through a massive break up... And that is when things turned toxic between us - two people going through massive emotional traumas.
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