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This can't be real. No-one could be that dense, stupid, lacking in self control, self esteem dragging in the mud, dimwitted, obtuse, pathetic, immature etc
Are you kidding me? Define "normal" ..... No normal man does this -- no respectable man in a relationship, anyway. He is still doing all of these things. And how do you know I'm no angel? Lol Would you want your guy on CL, looking at porn constantly, joining dating sites (such as Zoosk), creepin' on YOU? Give me a break.
Let's see, YOU are here to defend yourself, but HE'S not, right? We've already determined you're NOT normal but we can't say that about him because, he's NOT HERE to defend himself now is he??? Based on everything you've told us about YOU, this is finished.
ARE we supposed to take your "word" about what you claim he does??
I think not.
^^^ Because I love him & am still IN LOVE with him, that's why. Yeah, he's a DOG & treats me bad, but you can't help who you love, for love is blind. Love makez us do stupid things. (Please don't judge, folkz.)
Love is a choice. You are choosing to do stupid things. You are blaming him for everyone of your bad choices.
[quote=CSD610;33186156]So now he is a creep but you love him
I'm not taking sides with anyone here, I don't know either of you and honestly don't want to know either of you.
There are always THREE SIDES to a story, his, hers and the actual truth.
^^^^^^this^^^^^
I think that there is more to this whole story. I'm not even sure if I believe that the OP's ex really calls and such, or if she is just making drama and carrying on like a bit of a......well.......bunny boiler.
Sorry OP but move on.......I don't understand why you would want him around when he really doesn't sound happy to be there. If he's really umming and ahhhing then make the decision for him (and you).
You haven't got him tied up in the basement have you?
This can't be real. No-one could be that dense, stupid, lacking in self control, self esteem dragging in the mud, dimwitted, obtuse, pathetic, immature etc
Surely
It is very real & surely you can't be talking about me (being all these things). Your comment was uncalled for. You don't know what all I've been through, I've been through hell with this dude.
" You don't know what all I've been through, I've been through hell with this dude."
Yes we do. You've already TOLD us all we need (frankly don't care to) hear.
Advice has been given to you by several of us, HEED IT!!
DUMP him and go seek some help ... this tape will self destruct, like your relationships in 5...4...3
I'm not taking sides with anyone here, I don't know either of you and honestly don't want to know either of you.
There are always THREE SIDES to a story, his, hers and the actual truth.
^^^^^^this^^^^^
I think that there is more to this whole story. I'm not even sure if I believe that the OP's ex really calls and such, or if she is just making drama and carrying on like a bit of a......well.......bunny boiler.
Sorry OP but move on.......I don't understand why you would want him around when he really doesn't sound happy to be there. If he's really umming and ahhhing then make the decision for him (and you).
You haven't got him tied up in the basement have you?
"I'm not even sure if I believe that the OP's ex really calls and such." What makes you say this? He DOES still call, he DOES still text, he DOES still come over (whether to hook up or to shoot the ****). Why would I make that up? Sometimes when he doesn't hear from me, he'll contact me first. He may have moved on, but he is still contacting me. And I know to move on, so don't say "Sorry OP but move on," when him continuing to contact me is what's STOPPING me.
"I don't understand why you would want him around when he really doesn't sound happy to be there." True. I can see why you would say this because he & I don't do nothing but fight when he does come over. If he was so unhappy tho', then why come around at all? Feel me?
And lastly, what did you mean by "If he's really umming and ahhhing then make the decision for him (and you)?" Huh?/ What are you talking about?
Last edited by QueenOfHeartz; 01-26-2014 at 09:44 AM..
That, I am. I need to break this cycle & cut him off completely. Cutting off all contact & starting the NC rule process is going to be extremely difficult for me to do & I will need help with this.
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