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We drive to the bar in her car (which she mentioned was $65k, which I thought was weird to mention, #1) and on the way there she tells me how she went on a date with a guy who didn't pay for dinner and she thought it was very rude and didn't see him a second date.
She also said something to the effect of, "just so you know, some people might call me high maintenance, but I just like nice things. I like quality, nice things, and I like to look and feel good." I chalked that up as weird thing #3.
We get to the bar and the conversation is going great, but she explicitly told me she's not ready for any light touching of her hand or leg.
The conversation continues, and out of the blue she says, "you know were not having sex, right?"
She also started telling me how many guys on OKCupid she rejects and and stuff like that.
Besides her looks, what's the appeal? She sounds self-centered and bossy. You can have high self confidence and know what you want without being rude. It seems like you'll meet her needs though. A puppy dog that'll follow her around and do what she wants.
I have a female friend from college that is sort of like this, it appears that she's wealthy but she's really not, just has an extremely expensive taste and she enjoys the attention. So she will casually date guys who will help her maintain her lifestyle (in her case all of the guys are not relationship material which is her way out) until she's either had enough of them or something happens that causes them to stop seeing each other. Then she move on to a decent guy who can help maintain her lifestyle and get in a relationship with him...until she gets bored with him and then goes back to the guys that are unavailable. For her, it's her way of maintaining attention without long-term commitment.
I'm doubt that's happening with your date but personally I would pass because she sounds like she's emotionally unstable by being presumptive (i.e. I'm going to hurt you before you hurt me which is why she told you no sex without any indication from you that it's what you were after) and a bit controlling (i.e. I'm going to kiss you and then walk away).
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