Are ugly men seens as creeps towards women? (older, advice, friend)
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Huh? I have a hard time believing someone actually said this, unless she was 16 years old like someone else said.
How many people actually call you ugly? It is a terrible thing to say to someone.
I think you've been exaggerating. I've tried to tell you before that unattractive men with great personalities still get girlfriends and you blew me off. Stop wallowing in self-pity (therapy helps that). Do you actually prefer to think you are ugly?
Sorry for being blunt, but I don't like self-pitying attitudes at all.
Because you're rude! And I don't care what YOU dislike. Sorry for being blunt.
Last edited by Mtbornnard; 01-27-2014 at 01:16 PM..
I have to disagree with some of the posters here, they say that a creep is actions or vibe and it has nothing to do with outer looks. Your welcome to lie to yourselves if you want. But let me give you an example that it is outward looks. A pretty girl is eating with friends, a boy stares at her, what is her response to her friends? Well one is Ewww im uncomfortable that creepy dude is stareing at me, wish he would stop yuck! get the pepper spray(ugly guy). The other response is OMG! that gorgeous, cute guy is staring at me hehehe im so flattered, wonder what his name is?(cute)
Rest my case your honor. Its like in highschool and you asked a cheerleader out. If your were a jock or popular it was exceptable, but if you were a geek, nerd, social outcast then it was ewww, you creep!
Rest my case. Its just a new way of shuning the outcasts or socialy ackward.
I have to disagree with some of the posters here, they say that a creep is actions or vibe and it has nothing to do with outer looks. Your welcome to lie to yourselves if you want. But let me give you an example that it is outward looks. A pretty girl is eating with friends, a boy stares at her, what is her response to her friends? Well one is Ewww im uncomfortable that creepy dude is stareing at me, wish he would stop yuck! get the pepper spray(ugly guy). The other response is OMG! that gorgeous, cute guy is staring at me hehehe im so flattered, wonder what his name is?(cute)
Rest my case your honor. Its like in highschool and you asked a cheerleader out. If your were a jock or popular it was exceptable, but if you were a geek, nerd, social outcast then it was ewww, you creep!
Rest my case. Its just a new way of shuning the outcasts or socialy ackward.
I fit into the nerd and social outcast category. You're telling the truth and I couldn't rep you anymore. Anyone who disagrees just doesn't want to face the truth.
A pretty girl is eating with friends, a boy stares at her, what is her response to her friends? Well one is Ewww im uncomfortable that creepy dude is stareing at me, wish he would stop yuck! get the pepper spray(ugly guy). The other response is OMG! that gorgeous, cute guy is staring at me hehehe im so flattered, wonder what his name is?(cute)
Some women might behave like this, but not every woman will. I would imagine if they made eye contact and the dude is unattractive, she would probably think of him as unattractive before she would think he's creepy.
Also, what does a nerd expect when he asks out your stereotypical cheerleader? They likely have nothing in common so what does he expect the result to be?
I fit into the nerd and social outcast category. You're telling the truth and I couldn't rep you anymore. Anyone who disagrees just doesn't want to face the truth.
See the problem is its not politically correct to disagree.
Since pre-school all the way to now (college), I've been called ugly by people (family included). I won't lie, it has lowered my self-esteem dramatically and made me dislike everyone. It has also gotten to the point where I won't even say hi to a woman anymore because I could be called a creep or a stalker. I tried approaching some women and it didn't get me anywhere so I stopped. It might keep single, but I won't approach a woman because I'm afraid. But this will keep me from getting into trouble if I approach the wrong woman someday. Are ugly men seen as creeps towards women?
Looks have nothing to do with a person being perceived as "creepy." It's a personality thing.
A very attractive person can still be seen as "creepy." I've met a few of those... I'd rather hang out with a less attractive, non-creepy person, believe me.
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