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Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Originally Posted by Liberty2011
The problem is he thinks it's something he did wrong that can be fixed and often it's not. Sometimes it's just a feeling you have, you simply don't click, and you can't change or force it to be another way.
Truth. Most of the times there are one and done dates no one did anything wrong. It just wasn't a connection. Not worth a second thought.
The reason I am confused by "we are looking for different things," is because a 42 year old only goes out with a 25 year old if she's looking for sex, and vice versa. IMO, we were looking for the same thing - sex
The reason I am confused by "we are looking for different things," is because a 42 year old only goes out with a 25 year old if she's looking for sex, and vice versa. IMO, we were looking for the same thing - sex
Is that what it says on your profiles?
If that's really what you think, then I guess she just wasn't looking for sex with YOU.
What, you think she was just fibbing when she said all that stuff about "no sex"?
The reason I am confused by "we are looking for different things," is because a 42 year old only goes out with a 25 year old if she's looking for sex, and vice versa. IMO, we were looking for the same thing - sex
The reason I am confused by "we are looking for different things," is because a 42 year old only goes out with a 25 year old if she's looking for sex, and vice versa. IMO, we were looking for the same thing - sex
So you're choosing to ignore all the statements she made during the date saying she didn't want sex?
The reason I am confused by "we are looking for different things," is because a 42 year old only goes out with a 25 year old if she's looking for sex, and vice versa. IMO, we were looking for the same thing - sex
Truth. Most of the times there are one and done dates no one did anything wrong. It just wasn't a connection. Not worth a second thought.
Yes. And ultimately, the text she sent was very sincere, so it's a waste of time and energy, instead of accepting it at face value, to spend time imagining what she was reallying thinking.
And would the OP really care, if she wasn't the "hottest thing he'd ever seen"? This is all about his ego, because she would have made him look like a stud if he could parade her around everywhere and show her off. Lets not kid ourselves that he's genuinely concerned about anything other than his male pride.
The reason I am confused by "we are looking for different things," is because a 42 year old only goes out with a 25 year old if she's looking for sex, and vice versa. IMO, we were looking for the same thing - sex
Apparantly you were wrong about that. Like some others have suggested, make peace with it and move on. Don't try too hard to understand or you will drive yourself crazy worrying about it and probably screw up your next date too.
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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The reason I am confused by "we are looking for different things," is because a 42 year old only goes out with a 25 year old if she's looking for sex, and vice versa. IMO, we were looking for the same thing - sex
1) Your premise is faulty
2) If you're premise was correct, and that is a stretch, it very well may be that she is still being honest. She is looking for something different. You're looking for sex with her. She is NOT looking for sex with you.
But seriously dude, why are you freaking out over one date? I can't believe this is still on your mind. Kind of desperate sounding.
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