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Guys, I need your help. I think we all need your help in understanding you, the male species.
Women show their love one way and guys another way. Sometimes women don't feel loved by you because they expect you to show them your love THEIR way (the way they would show you). So tell us, how do YOU, male species show that you care for someone? Or that you are in love? What are the signs?
Or maybe the point is that you hide it and we are supposed to guess? Or are there signs?
What are the things a woman does that would make you like her?
What are the things a woman does that make you NOT like her?
How to keep you around, make sure you're not bothered or bored or looking somewhere else?
You do know there as many answers for each of those questions, as there are men in the world?
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for starters if you dont feel loved, it is your responsibility to communicate that to your S/O. If you are trying to get the attention of a guy and feel the need to behave a certain way for him to notice....then he isnt the one for you.
Things women (men) do that would make you like them? Care...show genuine interest on more than a physical level. If there is a spark or chemistry there...the rest as they say...is history.
Things women (men) do that would make you NOT like them? Pretend to care, or care for the wrong reasons...until the act gets old, and then the real personality shows up....dumping, break up, etc gets introduced at this point.
How to keep a man (woman) around, interested...? That's a mutual effort. The desire to be with the person must be equal and reinforced by things other than physical attraction.
01-29-2014, 07:27 PM
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Five love languages...
Women usually show love with good words, acts of service..
Men prefer time, touch, gifts..
But that's the stereotype..
I tend to show love with time and acts of service..just what I end up doing. I imagine all combos are prevalent. Even "all five" types...which I guess I should work on becoming...only problem, no girl!
I don't like gifts...idk
Good words are...good. I like to talk, and listen.
Touch...yes, please!
Time...I kinda like people who will always make time for me.
Acts of service? Yes and no. Depends on the act.
The way to a man's heart is below the solar plexus, up, and to the right.
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Guys, I need your help. I think we all need your help in understanding you, the male species.
Women show their love one way and guys another way. Sometimes women don't feel loved by you because they expect you to show them your love THEIR way (the way they would show you). So tell us, how do YOU, male species show that you care for someone? Or that you are in love? What are the signs?
Or maybe the point is that you hide it and we are supposed to guess? Or are there signs?
What are the things a woman does that would make you like her?
What are the things a woman does that make you NOT like her?
How to keep you around, make sure you're not bothered or bored or looking somewhere else?
For this crowd, all you need to do is stand still and twirl your hair when they "approach". A lot of these young men are so intimidated by women, they couldn't handle anything else.
But if you get one of the more advanced models, offer to go dutch on most dates. They are a little confused and more vulnerable than you think. They're afraid you're only out for their money.
Oh, and one very important thing if you manage to catch and keep one of these specimens: never ever admit to having sex with more than three guys in your life. EVER. If you do, their egos will shatter and they call you terrible names.
#1 Would be the creation of a sincere understanding that the man should feel himself at ease, that dating isn't shopping or a quest or a comedy-show. If men are in incessant struggle to make an impression and to prove their worth, dating devolves to a show, a contrived ritual of feints and parries. This quickly saps the man's enthusiasm and his capacity for genuine affection.
If we are to fulfill the promise of gender equality, the dating dynamic must become more symmetric. I don't believe that we should relinquish the basic emotional differences between men and women. This would be vain and counterproductive. But we can and should revise our social code, so that it is no longer the case that men plead their case and women evaluate.
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