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Old 01-30-2014, 01:57 PM
 
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I never understood their reasoning for this:

Alot of times, women with profiles on POF/Okcupid will post things like, "Don't message me if you are arrogant, jealous, or hurtful person!"


I mean seriously?

Is any guy going to read it and say, "Well, yeah, I am a hurtful and jealous person...so I won't message you."


That sentence achieved absolutely nothing.
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Old 01-30-2014, 02:00 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Those kinds of profiles say a lot more about the women who post them than they probably realize..
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Old 01-30-2014, 02:00 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Your point?
Don't message them obviously they are weird themselves.
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Old 01-30-2014, 02:02 PM
 
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Your point?
Don't message them obviously they are weird themselves.
My point is I don't understand their logic for posting this.

Is any guy really going to read it and say, "yeah...I am a hurtful person. I guess I cannot message you!"
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Old 01-30-2014, 02:02 PM
 
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People think they are doing themselves a service, when they are really doing themselves a disservice.
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Old 01-30-2014, 02:05 PM
 
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Most women who will read your post will think "Oh this guy must be an arrogant, hurtful person to think this way!"

Would you ever look for logic in emotions? Same with the words and actions of women.
Just let it go, otherwise, you will lose hair and kill brain cells really fast!
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Old 01-30-2014, 02:06 PM
 
Location: Pa
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My point is I don't understand their logic for posting this.

Is any guy really going to read it and say, "yeah...I am a hurtful person. I guess I cannot message you!"
If you read inbetween the lines I read,"I've been hurt real bad and can't take it anymore."

It screams"Avoid me I'm bruised!"
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Old 01-30-2014, 02:08 PM
 
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If you read inbetween the lines I read,"I've been hurt real bad and can't take it anymore."

It screams"Avoid me I'm bruised!"
Of course, I know the lines in between.

So you are saying that women who post that message are basically BROADCASTING that they've been hurt before and that's pretty much INVITING guys to hurt them more?
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Old 01-30-2014, 02:17 PM
 
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Of course, I know the lines in between.

So you are saying that women who post that message are basically BROADCASTING that they've been hurt before and that's pretty much INVITING guys to hurt them more?
And also that they, themselves, are quite possibly drama queens. One thing for sure, the person is not too bright to make such declaration.

Would you want to hook up with a not-so-bright drama queen?
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Old 01-30-2014, 02:23 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Of course, I know the lines in between.

So you are saying that women who post that message are basically BROADCASTING that they've been hurt before and that's pretty much INVITING guys to hurt them more?
Stupid is as stupid does.
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