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Old 11-29-2007, 07:25 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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. . that it won't happen to you. He'll be different with you.

You two have a "connection," a rapport that he didn't have with his ex. You have more things in common, similar personalities. He's pointed out all the ways that you two are so alike - it's just uncanny. You are so lucky to have met him at this point in your life. He says that he really appreciates you for who you are - and he's the first person to really do that, isn't he? Sure, he said the same things to *her* when he got together with her (and then grew to hate so many things about her), but it's different with you. He couldn't possibly be operating from scripts anymore. And it's so nice to finally have someone YOU can lean on, isn't it? It's hard being on your own, building a career, managing a household, and doing it all yourself. All of a sudden, here's this guy offering to help in ways that no one ever did. Knowing all the things you have been longing for and wanting in a partner. He couldn't possibly be hooking into your heart-felt desires and hurt places and pretending to be the answer, because he knows that's where you are vulnerable. He couldn't be pretending to like the things you like, and want the things you want, and be the person you have been looking for, because it's part of his patterns. Just because he did that with the women that came before you, doesn't mean he's doing that with you. He's really sincere this time.


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Old 11-29-2007, 07:49 PM
 
Location: Land of Thought and Flow
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If he did it with one woman, he's likely to do it with another. And another. And another. Some men are just pigs like that.
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Old 11-29-2007, 07:53 PM
 
Location: southern california
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wow a lot like my experience. maybe its the same person but they got a sex change!!
evil is genderless.
it can change form at will.
before i got my eyes open i thought satan was a woman great legs, nice dress and makeup, well maybe not satan but a very good imitation.
i dont hate anybody anymore.
but i do givem a lil more space to work their stuff out.
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