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I find it interesting how you wrote "there is constant yelling" instead of "s/he is constantly yelling" which indicates you both are yelling. Your whole post reads like this, vague and uncertain, filled with word games such as the above and pronoun games (gay relationship?) I am guessing you both are instigating drama with each other.
It sounds like one of those relationships where, once the initial puppy love wears off, it becomes clear that the two of you are incompatible.
My advice: Don't keep trying to fix it or make it go back to how it was, if your sweetie is not working at least as hard as you are to do that, and making rapid progress.
What is the mental illness, OP. I remember when I had my medical exam. There was a question if there is spousal abuse going on in the marriage. I actually was perplexed why it would be asked on medical exam.
And then I saw the exam result that there is no mental issue on my part. LOL. I guess if you are in abusive marriage it is a sign that there's mental illness if you are abused?!!!
No, the two things are completely separate.
The abuse question is asked of everyone, and is there because being abused affects people's health, and people are unlikely to mention it unless asked directly.
The mental health comment was also standard, but not related to the abuse question. Docs just like to note down if someone seems obviously crazy and/or in need of mental health services.
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