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I really hate it now. A guy I had met, 2 months ago, broke up with me yesterday. So, now I really don't want to date in the next year. I think I need to have priorities for myself now. So, if I go out, I go out by myself. That's all I have to say. I hate dating anymore...(at least for a year). ...
That's ..... 525,600 seconds! We can do that, can't we girls!
Don't give up Leana... I go back and forth daily on determining that men suck, or not. More often than not... they suck . But we will find someone, someday.
The breakup seems worse now b/c of the upcoming holidays. But with the new year right around the corner, you'll probably make a resolution to meet the right man.
Go on Leana, go out, have fun, meet people. Don't get into a relationship with someone so fast. You say you only met this guy 2 months ago and he broke up with you. I assume from that statement that you two were "going steady" or involved in some exclusive significant-other type relationship. 2 months is not very long for that kind of thing. Be glad you're not with this dope anymore and go out and have some fun!
I really hate it now. A guy I had met, 2 months ago, broke up with me yesterday. So, now I really don't want to date in the next year. I think I need to have priorities for myself now. So, if I go out, I go out by myself. That's all I have to say. I hate dating anymore...(at least for a year). ...
Leana,
I know it's hard, but the key is not to give away too much of yourself too soon. Good old fashion courtship. Let a man pursue you and show you he is worthy. I've had men invite me over to hang out on their couch and what DVDs after a second date. Okay, two dinners, and now they want to lure me onto their couch for a make out session? No thank you. Never over give. Next time a man walks away after a month, you won't care, because you've had some wonderful dinners and good wine, and that's all.
I really hate it now. A guy I had met, 2 months ago, broke up with me yesterday. So, now I really don't want to date in the next year. I think I need to have priorities for myself now. So, if I go out, I go out by myself. That's all I have to say. I hate dating anymore...(at least for a year). ...
I hear ya girl.
A guy in Texas hurt me almost a month ago.
We were starting to get to know eachother again then (he even flew me out to meet him in person for a weekend just before Halloween) he tells me that he still had feelings for his ex and that he is going to get back with her.
So yea guys suck!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I think maybe his ex didn't want him back because he has been sending me messages online and a few text messsages to my cell for like the past 3-4 weeks. I waited almost a whole week before I replied to him at all then I sent him a few messages that were to the point.
I'm still trying to forget him completely.
Feel free to PM me if you would like.
I dont mind dating, as long as people dont get the idea that either :
A) dillusions of getting married dont come into the picture, or...
B) that Im some sore of an easy bed partner.
Because neither will take place. People do date just for companionship lots of times and theres nothing wrong with that. Just dont lead them to think one of two things will ever happen or nor should a person ever 'expect' it to happen.
I really hate it now. A guy I had met, 2 months ago, broke up with me yesterday. So, now I really don't want to date in the next year. I think I need to have priorities for myself now. So, if I go out, I go out by myself. That's all I have to say. I hate dating anymore...(at least for a year). ...
It's actually very smart to take some time for yourself after a breakup. You need time to be good to yourself and regroup.
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Wow, that's a long time to go w/o sex.
I went seven years. It's not as bad as one might think. Those were some of the best years of my life. It also helped me to be better relationship material.
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Are you a leftover?
. But we will find someone, someday.
