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Just be careful not to do what my last bf did: we were cuddling in the afterglow, and he said very softly: "You know, you're the heaviest woman I've ever dated, but I don't want you to feel bad--I'm just glad I branched out." Um, not a good idea to let a girl know you've "lowered your standards." I wish I could say I dumped him then, but I waited till the next choice comment about my weight.
Amen, brother, amen! If more bros got the branch-out gospel, there wouldn't be so many pathetic whiners around, just imho. Make love, not war, on the fairer sex!
Just be careful not to do what my last bf did: we were cuddling in the afterglow, and he said very softly: "You know, you're the heaviest woman I've ever dated, but I don't want you to feel bad--I'm just glad I branched out." Um, not a good idea to let a girl know you've "lowered your standards." I wish I could say I dumped him then, but I waited till the next choice comment about my weight.
Really. That probably falls right behind "I love you but hate your children". did you tell him he is much smaller than the men your used to seeing
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Plus size?
That one would be ok if she 'Is' a plus size model.
Just be careful not to do what my last bf did: we were cuddling in the afterglow, and he said very softly: "You know, you're the heaviest woman I've ever dated, but I don't want you to feel bad--I'm just glad I branched out." Um, not a good idea to let a girl know you've "lowered your standards." I wish I could say I dumped him then, but I waited till the next choice comment about my weight.
You have to wonder how people this stupid stagger through each day without tripping over their shoelaces.
Typically I go for the skinny, girly-girl type women. That's just what I'm attracted to, being a pretty slim guy myself and all. Tonight I went on one of the best dates I've had in quite awhile, I messaged a Hungarian woman that lived in my city, she was pretty curvy, I wouldn't say fat but definitely not the type of women I typically go after. She was built like a woman Softball/Rugby player I'd say. I found her sexy, as much I tried arguing with myself.
She was a lot of fun, I'm pretty reserved and quiet, she was extremely confident and outgoing, we're about as opposite as you can get!
We went to a pub that had a concert going on, drank a little and played some pool. About 2-3 hours I'd say. Conversation seemed to flow easily, talked to 6-7 random strangers and had a great time. I hope I didn't screw it up by not being aggressive enough but I'm going to give her a call in a day or so and make some plans.
Branching out seemed to help!
This is great, OP, and thanks for posting! I hope this works out for you!
Really. That probably falls right behind "I love you but hate your children". did you tell him he is much smaller than the men your used to seeing
I did. He didn't like it much.
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You have to wonder how people this stupid stagger through each day without tripping over their shoelaces.
I had to wonder too--he claimed he used to be a clinical director of an eating disorder clinic. I had to start wondering if he was even telling the truth about any of what he'd said after that.
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. did you tell him he is much smaller than the men your used to seeing
I had to start wondering if he was even telling the truth about any of what he'd said after that.
