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It's not that the younger generation rejects experience; they simply reject the experience of "adults", especially their parents. It's the way we were designed to think.
Dude, if they want it every day, oblige, oblige! Is this a problem? If you're not getting it (or somebody's not), go out and find it. Cherchez la femme, life is for living!
Well that's most of my problem right there. It's not getting rejected a lot because I don't even get to that point because I'm pathetic in the chercher department. The woman I'm with now I met randomly a couple months ago on the other side of town and I assumed I'd never see her again. A few weeks after that she pokes her head into my kitchen while I'm cooking; turns out she already knew one of my housemates and one of his girlfriends. At that point is was off to the races. (This house is like a soap opera.)
I suspect many women have almost the same problem men have and turn to masturbation if they don't have a full time partner.
They do have the ability of going on someplace like Match and finding someone for a quickie of their choosing.
They also have a very wide assortment of BOB's that can help fulfil the need.
I guess it depends on just what they are looking for. Those who are looking for sex can probably find it without much difficulty by going to bars. There are certainly times when masturbation is suitable, e.g. when someone's partner is temporarily away, or when they are between partners, but I don't think it's desirable over a sustained period of time.
And I have no idea what BOB's are, I got no joy from Google or even Urban Dictionary.
He is saying if women are truly like men in the everyday sexual urges how do they cope with it when it's unattainable?
What actions are used?
Fwb?
Internet dating?
Paying for it?
The gardener?
The pool boy?
The plumber?
Videos?
Thank you. My question is based on Ruth's observation that in an earlier thread, several women said they felt a need for sex every day. It is also based on my presumption that toys etc are not sustainable as a long-term coping tactic, since they do not address the sensual (non-mechanical) component of sex.
None of the above? I think the answer was already given: Toys. Most women seem pretty satisfied with those in the absence of a skilled and trustworthy partner.
For most, picking up a random guy is a dumb solution, since he is unlikely to give her an orgasm, and the risk of STDs, pregnancy and sexual assault enters the mix.
I can see the undesirability of bearing the risks you mention; but there are intermediate options. For example, why might toys be seen as preferable to a trusted, caring friend as a temporary measure?
Since it appears that women have a strong preference for hot guys - a graph posted earlier suggests that women rate about 80% of men as below average in attractiveness, while women also send the overwhelming majority of their messages to these same hot guys - it would appear that toys are lacking that certain something that women want.
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