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^^^ The drop-off in his level of activity was due to no longer being Vitamin F-deficient?
Wow. The things you learn on this forum!
I never get bored of sex (the kinky stuff that is). I have had 2 half decade relationships and never got bored, in fact the women wanted to slow it down and I dident which is why they are ex's. At about 27 I went from wanting it every day to every other day so that kinda sucked but it was much better quality as long as that is communicated and the expectations are understood so that when that second day comes you both know that neither of you will flake out.
Interesting,as a Man I can tell you one thing for sure,we are sexual beings,whenever this lacks (sexual desire) typically means there is someone on the side that he is already having sex with on the regular,you just don't know about it,it only takes a couple minutes to initiate a sexual encounter. Then there is the other scenario,which I hope you fit into. Once a guy has someone steady to have sex with,in the beginning of that relationship he needs to perform to keep your interest and make you exclusive,once that's done,in his mind..his work is done,so why go the extra mile and do all that work when you are both already an item. Only then will he be less likely to be interested in the ordinary things that can keep a relationship together. hope its the latter.
If she is becomming a nag or does not keep up her appearnces I can very easily not be in the mood without someone on the side and only want it twice a week. My gf is very dangerously running up agaisnt that, trying to pressrue a bond between me and her son that is just not happeneing and pressureing marriage. She cant just enjoy like with me so now things are not going well.
Depends on age too, a 20 something guy is likely getting it on the side if he does not want it, I used to be horny no matter what but now I need proper behavior and appearance out of a woman or I become a dead fish.
It's only been a year and a half for the OP & co., not 30.
well, i got you but somehow it's lost it's spark.
sometimes a guy loses interest after he realizes that the menu isn't going to change, that could be as short as 6months or sooner i guess. but it does come down to sexual compatibility. and despite how much you care and love someone, sometimes the compatiblity just isn't there any longer. and that's a tough situation to comes to terms with since either one must compromise their interests or decide to look for someone that fullfils their needs.... if that person is out there. and then the opposite could also happen, the sex is great but the emotional connection and relationship compatilibity just isn't ideal.
leona, may I ask few questions. I probably just thinking too much okay,
Since you say you don't live together with him, but do see him 6 times per week. I was wondering, did you noticed any changes about him? Beside sex, does he still treats you the same? Like care for you, still caring for you like when you first date? Even a man have low sex drive physically, the emotionally loving feeling he have for his gf should not change at all. You guys are still young, you guys are not 60 year olds couples.
Did you noticed any different smell on him? Or a different ways he looking at you? Does he still talks to you like before? You guys still have the communication like you did when you first date? I ask this because maybe he might have another girl, or maybe there someone else in his heart, or maybe someone else on his mind. OK, like I say, I am just over thinking Okay, please don't suspect your bf.
There many reasons, since directly talk to him don't work, try joke around. Like one day when he is in the good mood, just joke around ask "Do you still love me?", "Is there someone else on your mind"? Ask it like a joke, see if there any changes on his face. Wish you two the best. Take care
OK, I just read page 3, the OP are 99.99999 positive he does not have any other girls. So the OP can just ignore my post, LOL! Sorry, LOL! Hope it work out for you guys soon.
Don't let people make you feel crazy for being concerned. Having different sex drives in a relationship can cause many problems whether people want to admit it or not. Yours is simply higher. If you are having problems in only 1.5 years then you need to strongly consider if you want to continue this relationship because it will most likely only dwindle more. You need to honestly ask yourself if you can handle even less and if you want to stick with that. If not, move on.
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