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Old 02-15-2014, 06:57 PM
 
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Dear all,

I am married, have kids and i have a respected family. My two young sis in laws have grown up now and i saw them dating persons who are troublemakers and adventurers. They do not know i saw them but i am just unwillingly being informed also from several trusted sources that one sis is dating (for three years now) a married man who is some 10 years older. The younger sis in law is followng the older sis as they go out together and both associate with the married guy and his unknown friend. This is morally troubling me since my wife knows nothing about it and perhaps my inlaws too. These guys have money and drive good cars.

Any advice what would u do in this respect?

Thanks, Ado

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Old 02-15-2014, 07:00 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Tell your wife, or mind your business.


I bet they're having orgies.
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Old 02-15-2014, 07:00 PM
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Dear all,

I am married, have kids and i have a respected family. My two young sis in laws have grown up now and i saw them dating persons who are troublemakers and adventurers. They do not know i saw them but i am just unwillingly being informed also from several trusted sources that one sis is dating (for three years now) a married man who is some 10 years older. The younger sis in law is followng the older sis as they go out together and both associate with the married guy and his unknown friend. This is morally troubling me since my wife knows nothing about it and perhaps my inlaws too. These guys have money and drive good cars.

Any advice what would u do in this respect?

Thanks, Ado
No one cares about your morals, keep those to yourself.

As to the "my wife knows nothing..." statement, keep it that way.
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Old 02-15-2014, 07:05 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Is your last name Corleone or something? A "respected family"???

Let them live their lives, not one YOU think they should live.
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Old 02-15-2014, 07:07 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Butt out. You can tell everyone and what would that accomplish?
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Old 02-15-2014, 07:08 PM
 
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Dear all,

I am married, have kids and i have a respected family. My two young sis in laws have grown up now and i saw them dating persons who are troublemakers and adventurers. They do not know i saw them but i am just unwillingly being informed also from several trusted sources that one sis is dating (for three years now) a married man who is some 10 years older. The younger sis in law is followng the older sis as they go out together and both associate with the married guy and his unknown friend. This is morally troubling me since my wife knows nothing about it and perhaps my inlaws too. These guys have money and drive good cars.

Any advice what would u do in this respect?

Thanks, Ado
Are you bored? My advice is to stay out of it.


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I bet they're having orgies.
Yeah, and they're really hot.
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Old 02-15-2014, 07:27 PM
 
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Dude, they're not your kids, so they're not your problem. You don't have to worry about them. Isn't that liberating?
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Old 02-15-2014, 07:40 PM
 
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Blackmail. Hee Hee.
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Old 02-16-2014, 04:47 AM
 
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I don't think it's your business.
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Old 02-16-2014, 05:16 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Id make popcorn and enjoy the show
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