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Sure, I wouldn't mind being his sexual teacher. Seriously, this wouldn't be a problem. Being a virgin doesn't mean someone can't be good in bed, it just takes practice.
Holly sh*t, I wish all women were like you. Also, the poll isn't really accurate if u ask me, I think that at least 90% of women wouldn't want to date a 25 yrs old virgin, let alone a virgin in his 30s. The most users who voted "yes" are probably men anyway.
(Ps. I know this thread is 3 yrs old, I'm sorry for digging it up, some might not be happy with this)
Heck yeah I would. But then...I like virgin males. They're fun. I have had the honor and the fun of being the first for a number of virgin guys. The oldest was in his 50s.
Said no woman ever. You just restored my faith in humanity, but then again, women like you are very very rare.
Now you're just messing with me.
I'm not. He is at least as unusual as I am.
I've said it before, the reason virgin guys are good lovers (usually, or at least in my own experience) is that not every woman responds exactly the same to the same kinds of stimulation. We aren't all alike, don't all like the same moves. (Men have quite a bit of variance, too, at least some of them have really surprised me with what they liked.) So sometimes guys (and us experienced gals, too) have picked up a bunch of habits from other lovers, that we think we know what women (or men) always like. And then you get with one who doesn't, and oops...not so good a lover as ya thought you were! I have had this rather humbling experience myself. But a virgin man hasn't got a head full of this, he might have some silly ideas from porn, but a bit of experimentation will get that out of his system. When that position that looks great on camera puts a cramp like a bear trap in the bottom of your foot, you'll figure it out lol! So a lot of the time, especially with the older ones, they've had plenty of time to wait and want and even learn and research, but they don't presume to just jump in there and do what they always do. They will take the time to learn what THAT particular woman likes. And sometimes they're grateful enough to have her, that they will really be very attentive and giving.
For what it's worth? I tell a lot of people this. Because I think it's a truth not many really know or believe, perhaps. And it sucks that virgin guys feel unwanted or bad about it, and it also sucks that women don't know what they're missing out on.
My former girlfriend has also appreciates inexperienced guys, but in her case she just likes corrupting innocents.
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Why is that and what exactly do you mean by playbook.
It was kinda meant as a joke. I think Barney had one in that TV show "How I Met Your Mother" He had a black book with a list of names of all the women he slept with.
Most people don't want a long-term relationship with someone who has a LONG list of people they slept with.
It was kinda meant as a joke. I think Barney had one in that TV show "How I Met Your Mother" He had a black book with a list of names of all the women he slept with.
Most people don't want a long-term relationship with someone who has a LONG list of people they slept with.
If someone is REALLY interested in someone I don’t think virginity is really going to stop them from trying anything with them.
Agreed. It's an additional fact, not the main priority. I've never asked any guy if he was a virgin. Maybe there was one and I couldn't tell. Not everyone's a pro, enthusiasm would count for something.
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