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Old 02-27-2014, 04:18 PM
 
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If a straight male has a lot of really good looking female friends, does that mean he is good looking? Or is it hard to say?

I have no money, so women aren't attracted to me for that, but I am smart, funny and outgoing.

Basically, I am 25/m/usa and I don't know if I'm good looking or not. On one hand, I don't get approached or flirted with by women out and about, and I know I'd fail on Tinder (a hookup site). On the other hand, I do okay on OKCupid, but the women I date or have hooked up with who were REALLY good looking, were usually much older. And my female friends are all very good looking (7 or 8/10). Granted, I've been friendzoned by all of them, but that was due to my own incompetence.

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Old 02-27-2014, 04:19 PM
 
Location: North Carolina, US
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Ask one of your female friends. They will be able to give you the best answer.
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Old 02-27-2014, 04:20 PM
 
Location: North Carolina, US
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But the fact that you brought up your lack of money may mean you are perceived as not being confident which could be your real downfall.
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Old 02-27-2014, 04:22 PM
 
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But the fact that you brought up your lack of money may mean you are perceived as not being confident which could be your real downfall.
Well, I just meant that women don't hang around me because of money.
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Old 02-27-2014, 04:22 PM
 
Location: Pa
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You are personable and eye candy.
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Old 02-27-2014, 04:25 PM
 
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i tell ya...some of these threads smh

to a *straight* guy, those alleged friends are just chicks in the bang queue
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Old 02-27-2014, 04:29 PM
 
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i tell ya...some of these threads smh

to a *straight* guy, those alleged friends are just chicks in the bang queue
way to generalize someone you've never met. real classy.
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Old 02-27-2014, 04:37 PM
 
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a straight guy dont tend to hang out with a bunch of women unless he's scamming

its totally plausible to have a homegirl that you probabably knew for a long time that you might not look at as a score

but not multiple women
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Old 02-27-2014, 04:39 PM
 
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a straight guy dont tend to hang out with a bunch of women unless he's scamming

its totally plausible to have a homegirl that you probabably knew for a long time that you might not look at as a score

but not multiple women
Speak for yourself
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Old 02-27-2014, 04:41 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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The only way to tell if you are attractive is to actually meet you.
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