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I think he definitely was nervous but there are other ways he could have expressed that nervousness. The fact that he resorted to using those words, with a girl, on a date, means that he's more piggish than most. I know lots of guys who use these words, but they use them with their buddies in informal settings. There's a time and place for piggishness.
I don't think you can really control how your nervousness displays. Everyone copes with it differently!
Did you tell him you didn't like the way he was talking?
I don't think you can really control how your nervousness displays. Everyone copes with it differently!
Did you tell him you didn't like the way he was talking?
No, because I was so turned off by it. I thought once, maybe twice would be enough, but he just kept going. I didn't like it. I shouldn't have to teach him manners.
I don't think you can really control how your nervousness displays. Everyone copes with it differently!
Did you tell him you didn't like the way he was talking?
I'm saying that his particular display of nervousness is indicative of what's underneath. Like Raena said, she stutters when she's nervous. She doesn't start talking like she's in a high school locker room. That's because that's not who she IS.
No, because I was so turned off by it. I thought once, maybe twice would be enough, but he just kept going. I didn't like it. I shouldn't have to teach him manners.
I'm with you on not having to teach manners, but I also think its OK to not allow yourself to be in a situation very long that is making you uncomfortable. This isn't something that only an ultrasensitive woman wouldn't like.
I'm with you on not having to teach manners, but I also think its OK to not allow yourself to be in a situation very long that is making you uncomfortable. This isn't something that only an ultrasensitive woman wouldn't like.
I exited the date right after dinner. He was planning on having me coming over his place after, and he even said I could stay over. Yuck.
I exited the date right after dinner. He was planning on having me coming over his place after, and he even said I could stay over. Yuck.
ahhh so maybe all the naughty talking was his version of foreplay!
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