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You may be right that you have encouraged her, so even more the quicker you clearly make your intentions towards your family known, if in the long run she is not stopping, you may have to talk to your hr, remember us gals can get vindictive when we are scorned, just make your apology and move on really quick, by the way you sound that you may be of another culture (trying not to offend) and that may be what some of the other posters are picking up on since you seem to feel responsibilty towards the younger girl. Perhaps your way of dealing with this is to go soft, but now is the decision of your life, you are at a fork in the road. good luck
by the way you sound that you may be of another culture (trying not to offend) and that may be what some of the other posters are picking up on since you seem to feel responsibilty towards the younger girl.
Well besides the culture difference there is a realy difference in the male/female roll. What would be the punishment for the unmarried girl? I seem to remember reading about wives being punished for infidelity
Well besides the culture difference there is a realy difference in the male/female roll. What would be the punishment for the unmarried girl? I seem to remember reading about wives being punished for infidelity
No, not in the Hindu culture. You can use that as point to get a divorce. But thats it.
But lets say for the sake of argument, what if she really feels for me. All this kind of makes me think whether I am making a BIG mistake by my unilateral decision to distance from her. Will this make her feel she is useless.
Sounds to me like you like the ego boost and don't want to burn that bridge, and that the infatuation BOTH WAYS is a pleasant thrill at some level to you in the daily humdrum life of marriage, and work and kids. I'd say be honest at least with yourself, not necessarily with the whole internet, about how you feel having this attraction situation going on.
Ok, then you will have to do as you see fit, I will just remind you as you get older the choose you make today will have a major impact on your children, the best thing you can do for them is to love and respect your wife. good luck
working in the chip business for many years, not to be predudice, I was picking up on some of our fellows intuitions, so the frying pan method will not work, his culture is very different, so all we can do is encourage him to do the right thing, the girl may be trying to move up in the "system" Many of the engineers I worked with could not tell the difference between social and romantic intent
his culture is very different, so all we can do is encourage him to do the right thing. Many of the engineers I worked with could not tell the difference between social and romantic intent
I have yet to meet a man of any culture that could not recognize a sexual interaction or attraction. Men are men and all the men I've dated (from several different countries and cultures) can tell the difference when they are thinking with their big head or their little head.
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can tell the difference when [b]they are thinking with their big head or their little head.[/quote][/B
depends on which end, in some cases, diamond
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