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Old 03-08-2014, 11:33 PM
 
Location: northwest Illinois
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If she were worthwhile in other aspects, I would certainly date her. I don't think anyone is permanently or intractably frigid so I don't view that as a lifetime condition. Frigid women need love, affection, and affirmation just as much as other women and i would try to meet those needs and wants.
I thought frigid women only needed a warm place to sleep?

 
Old 03-08-2014, 11:34 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I think it is due to feeling extra self conscious and I don't want him to judge me.
If a man truly loves you... he will be down with you... you'd be his best friend and he wouldn't judge you... you guys could do things together and be more intimate with him than you'd ever been in your whole life.

Don't waste time... life is short.... get with him and stop wasting time.........

There's far too much fun to be had...please get busy........

No one is thinking less of you because of it.....
 
Old 03-09-2014, 12:00 AM
 
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I thought frigid women only needed a warm place to sleep?

Consult your doctor or spiritual advisor for the truth.

(Why does this software think 'advisor' is misspelled?)
 
Old 03-09-2014, 07:27 AM
 
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This condition is really ruining my relationship.
 
Old 03-09-2014, 07:46 AM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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You can't necessarily just force desire. You can't just force yourself to change this. It takes work and a willingness to give a little. I'm curious, how does your SO address it from his end? My wife once told me, "I'm a slow cooker, not a microwave." This has really helped me in my approach with her.
 
Old 03-09-2014, 08:09 AM
 
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No, because sex isn't a big deal in life.
 
Old 03-09-2014, 08:12 AM
 
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Nothing that a bit of sincerity - compassion...patience along with love and tenderness won't cure....besides there is something attractive and challenging about a bitter woman.
 
Old 03-09-2014, 08:44 AM
 
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By "frigid" do you mean prude or asexual?
 
Old 03-09-2014, 11:14 AM
 
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By "frigid" do you mean prude or asexual?
I am emotionally very intimate with my bf, but physically it's difficult because when I try to have sex with him, my muscles become too tight which makes penetration impossible. I do feel a very deep connection with him and I really love him, but it is becoming such a challenge to get over this issue.

Also, I become tense when he touches me in a very sexual way. I am not sure what this means. I desire him but I have a very difficult time acting on it sexually, due to freezing up and becoming very uncomfortable.
 
Old 03-09-2014, 11:17 AM
 
Location: northwest Illinois
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This condition is really ruining my relationship.
You NEED therapy, not sex.
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