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View Poll Results: How old were you when you had your first kiss? Read details before taking poll!
Under 17 44 72.13%
17-21 9 14.75%
22-27 7 11.48%
27 or older 1 1.64%
Voters: 61. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 12-22-2014, 10:33 AM
 
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I don't think 17 is late by any means. I'm 22 and haven't had one yet.
Honestly he was late to the party, I think me and you are coming to the party after it's already over.
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Old 12-22-2014, 10:55 AM
 
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23 and haven't had one yet. Don't expect it to happen by now.
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Old 12-22-2014, 11:01 AM
 
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I was 21, so I was a late bloomer. But I've been happily married for 18 years now so it can't have been too late!
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Old 12-23-2014, 11:11 AM
 
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23 and haven't had one yet. Don't expect it to happen by now.
Why are you giving up? I'm 26, have never been kissed or had sex yet. I can't say it doesn't depress me but I still hope for it to happen one day. Why would you just throw in the towel?
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Old 12-23-2014, 11:41 AM
 
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Why are you giving up? I'm 26, have never been kissed or had sex yet. I can't say it doesn't depress me but I still hope for it to happen one day. Why would you just throw in the towel?
I didn't mention throwing in the towel. I just said I didn't expect it to happen. I've had sex, though, but it was with an escort and I wouldn't kiss one.
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Old 12-23-2014, 12:31 PM
 
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You guys need to find your balls and get out there, meet lots of women, and kiss some of them. It's not rocket science, I promise, you just have to find a woman who finds you attractive.
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Old 12-23-2014, 05:04 PM
 
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Honestly he was late to the party, I think me and you are coming to the party after it's already over.
Even if that is true, well I say f*** the party.

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You guys need to find your balls and get out there, meet lots of women, and kiss some of them. It's not rocket science, I promise, you just have to find a woman who finds you attractive.
What the hell would you know? Not everyone is a social butterfly like you. You have no idea what it's like to be thoroughly rejected by society since early youth. I'm not saying that as an excuse, I'm not seeking pity, nor am I giving up by any means. Someone needs to knock you off your high horse and put you in somebody else's shoes. Take your condescending tone somewhere else.
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Old 12-23-2014, 05:06 PM
 
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You guys need to find your balls and get out there, meet lots of women, and kiss some of them. It's not rocket science, I promise, you just have to find a woman who finds you attractive.
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What the hell would you know? Not everyone is a social butterfly like you. You have no idea what it's like to be thoroughly rejected by society since early youth. I'm not saying that as an excuse, I'm not seeking pity, nor am I giving up by any means. Someone needs to knock you off your high horse and put you in somebody else's shoes. Take your condescending tone somewhere else.
Cmon now... Don't let this thread deteriorate like every other city-data thread.
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Old 12-23-2014, 05:26 PM
 
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Even if that is true, well I say f*** the party.



What the hell would you know? Not everyone is a social butterfly like you. You have no idea what it's like to be thoroughly rejected by society since early youth. I'm not saying that as an excuse, I'm not seeking pity, nor am I giving up by any means. Someone needs to knock you off your high horse and put you in somebody else's shoes. Take your condescending tone somewhere else.
You think I haven't been rejected by girls? Haven't been made fun of by them? I dealt with severe cystic acne on my face right as I went off to college, and general acne since I was a young teenager, major hair loss in my early 20's, severe depression. I've made it work and I'm 1000x stronger because of it. I could've easily curled up in a metaphorical hole and died, I had plenty of reason to. You don't know social horror until you have massive red angry cysts all over your face and are forced to go be around tons of hot girls and good looking flawless dudes in college.

So take your condescending tone somewhere else. If you guys hadn't given up and were actually trying we wouldn't be having this conversation.
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Old 12-23-2014, 06:17 PM
 
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You think I haven't been rejected by girls? Haven't been made fun of by them? I dealt with severe cystic acne on my face right as I went off to college, and general acne since I was a young teenager, major hair loss in my early 20's, severe depression. I've made it work and I'm 1000x stronger because of it. I could've easily curled up in a metaphorical hole and died, I had plenty of reason to. You don't know social horror until you have massive red angry cysts all over your face and are forced to go be around tons of hot girls and good looking flawless dudes in college.

So take your condescending tone somewhere else. If you guys hadn't given up and were actually trying we wouldn't be having this conversation.
Awesome.
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