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Well, you admit you messed up by being too jealous. Now you've been put in his "maybe" box, and I understand that.
If you are truly sorry for what you did you have to prove yourself to him, and part of that is the uncertainty of your future with him. Sounds like only time will tell.
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We have talked , some. He just says that you don't know what the future holds but ideally we would end up
Together. When we talk about things we had planned to do in the future, he always says it will happen , or someday. I'm just worried that it won't happen
It's not going to happen. He is using you for sex and saying whatever he thinks you want to hear.
I just wish that for once in my life something would work out that I wanted to . He was the best thing that ever happened to me and I messed it all up
Everything you have posted makes you come off as desperate, and I guarantee that you appear desperate to your ex, as well, and encouraging him to take advantage of the situation. If you enjoy being viewed as desperate, carry on.
Well, you admit you messed up by being too jealous. Now you've been put in his "maybe" box, and I understand that.
If you are truly sorry for what you did you have to prove yourself to him, and part of that is the uncertainty of your future with him. Sounds like only time will tell.
"Maybe" is just my way of saying "NO" without actually not saying no.
"Maybe" is just my way of saying "NO" without actually not saying no.
"Maybe" is saying "no" and still being eligible for sex.
I don't know their past relationship, how long they went out for, etc. I don't know the story on how her jealousy affected the relationship. The details could affect my answer, but right now I'm just shooting in the dark.
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"Maybe" is saying "no" and still being eligible for sex.
I don't know their past relationship, how long they went out for, etc. I don't know the story on how her jealousy affected the relationship. The details could affect my answer, but right now I'm just shooting in the dark.
I just wish that for once in my life something would work out that I wanted to . He was the best thing that ever happened to me and I messed it all up
Just curious, when was the last time he told you that he loved you? (Was it relatively recently, or further back in time?) Some people might perhaps think that "ILY" is all words and nothing more, and while I can certainly understand that POV, I personally believe those 3 words can be very, very meaningful and significant.
Ex boyfriend and I hang out about once a week. Things seem pretty good. Occasionally we have sex. He says things might work out, he just needs to see that my jealousy is not as bad as it was. He tells me he loves me, we cuddle, go to movies... Dinner....
How can I get out of this mess I created? I really would like to rebuild our relationship
What if he died tomorrow? How do you see your worth as a human being? How tied is your self-worth to him?
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(Was it relatively recently, or further back in time?) Some people might perhaps think that "ILY" is all words and nothing more, and while I can certainly understand that POV, I personally believe those 3 words can be very, very meaningful and significant.
