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Old 03-15-2014, 08:33 PM
 
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Sounds like my relationship with my bestfriend except we both feel attraction. Too bad she is dumber than rocks and starting to put on some weight to what used to be a hot body.

She begs me to take her to the gym, but I don't really feel like investing in her and putting the effort in for something I am not going to enjoy. Sounds bad but meh lol
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Old 03-15-2014, 10:06 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Both of you like each other. Talk it out and if the feelings are mutual she needs to tell her boyfriend, let him go.

Bewarn:if she does this to her boyfriend she may do this to you.
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Old 03-15-2014, 10:09 PM
 
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My best friend kisses my husband on the lips when we see each other and I kiss her husband on the lips.
It is a kiss, a I've missed you my friend kiss nothing sexual or romantic about it.
It is not a long drawn out wet sloppy kiss, it is just a kiss.
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Old 03-15-2014, 10:10 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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I love the friendzone.
Sounds like there was a glitch in the friendzone. Exploit the matrix or be forever trapped.
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Old 03-15-2014, 10:22 PM
 
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My best friend kisses my husband on the lips when we see each other and I kiss her husband on the lips.
It is a kiss, a I've missed you my friend kiss nothing sexual or romantic about it.
It is not a long drawn out wet sloppy kiss, it is just a kiss.
lol what country do you live in?
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Old 03-15-2014, 10:37 PM
 
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Oh it must mean she is in love with you and is ready to drop her panties cause no woman would ever kiss a man on the lips for any other reason. HOLY HECK what's with all these posts asking what some third party's behavior means???? Can't people flippin think for themselves these days?
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Old 03-16-2014, 12:57 AM
 
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Oh it must mean she is in love with you and is ready to drop her panties cause no woman would ever kiss a man on the lips for any other reason. HOLY HECK what's with all these posts asking what some third party's behavior means???? Can't people flippin think for themselves these days?

This is not intuitive and not everyone has experienced or even heard of this. (there was a recent reference to it in a different thread) For those who are unfamiliar with this practice - it happened to me some years ago - it can be taken as confusing mixed messages or teasing.
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Old 03-16-2014, 01:01 AM
 
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I don't know what this means...
Ask her, not us. She may or may not be honest with you, but asking us will give you information approximately as useful as a coin toss.
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Old 03-16-2014, 01:02 AM
 
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Oh it must mean she is in love with you and is ready to drop her panties cause no woman would ever kiss a man on the lips for any other reason. HOLY HECK what's with all these posts asking what some third party's behavior means???? Can't people flippin think for themselves these days?
Nope. Nor can they speak directly to the people whose thoughts they want to know. Not the people who post here, anyway.
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Old 03-16-2014, 03:09 AM
 
Location: Montreal, Quebec
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My female best friend was infatuated with me while we were teens but I ignored her advances at the time. Then I was the one who started to feel attracted to her and nowadays we have very platonic thing.

We both went to university and now she's a flight attendant while I'm still finishing my master's degree. She has a boyfriend that I've known for a few years as well.

We hadn't seen each for 7 months (she's working in another country) but she called me the other day to tell me she was around and to arrange a meeting with me.

We went for coffee, had a long friendly conversation about what we were up to and then I accompanied her to the car. We hugged because she won't return for a few months again and just before she went away she kissed me on the lips. I wasn't expecting that at all and she drove away.

She knows I've wanted her for a long time but prefer to be her friend. However, I thought she was over me in regards to her teen crush.

I don't know what this means...
I t doesn't mean anything. I kiss my very good male friends on the lips.
It doesn't mean I'm hot for them.
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