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My female best friend was infatuated with me while we were teens but I ignored her advances at the time. Then I was the one who started to feel attracted to her and nowadays we have very platonic thing.
We both went to university and now she's a flight attendant while I'm still finishing my master's degree. She has a boyfriend that I've known for a few years as well.
We hadn't seen each for 7 months (she's working in another country) but she called me the other day to tell me she was around and to arrange a meeting with me.
We went for coffee, had a long friendly conversation about what we were up to and then I accompanied her to the car. We hugged because she won't return for a few months again and just before she went away she kissed me on the lips. I wasn't expecting that at all and she drove away.
She knows I've wanted her for a long time but prefer to be her friend. However, I thought she was over me in regards to her teen crush.
Probably that she just thinks of you as a friend and she feels safe enough to kiss you on the lips that you're not going to try anything. I honestly don't know, I have had female friends who have done this in the past and I didn't take for anything more than what it was, just a kiss. It'll be interesting to see what the females have to say
it could be nothing, my wife's best friend gives me a kiss on the lips whenever she leaves town after coming to visit. She does the same to my wife. While some would say there was more to it than just friendship, it is just a quick peck and how she says bye to her closest friends/family.
Now if it was a lingering kiss or open mouth then I would definitely say she was expressing feelings without saying them.
it could be nothing, my wife's best friend gives me a kiss on the lips whenever she leaves town after coming to visit. She does the same to my wife. While some would say there was more to it than just friendship, it is just a quick peck and how she says bye to her closest friends/family.
Now if it was a lingering kiss or open mouth then I would definitely say she was expressing feelings without saying them.
It was just a quick kiss and it was also my first one.
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I think you need to talk to her about this. I'd really want to know what in sam hell was the lip kiss about, even if it turns out to be nothing. Going to the lips leads me to think she has a little thing for you still.
and this is a problem?? wtf ?? its like tripping over a 100 dollar bill and complaining about it..
She has a boyfriend.
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