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This whole relationship is workng from a handicap, in my opinion, flawed right out of the gate. At least to me, but whatever works for people.
I personally wouldn't be with a woman that much younger than me and I certainly wouldn't take her just because she's arm candy or whatever. He's way way old enough to know better.
Her... she sounds like insecure idiot, just like the eagles song goes as someone mentioned earlier in the thread.
The funny thing was as soon as I wrote that I was thinking of the sexual connotations to it.
I wonder why this old guy doesn't just pop the blue pill. Maybe OP is missing out some details.
I think he offered but she really isn't interested in trying to have sex with him anymore. Sorry I cant blame her. Also at 70, well that pill has side effects. If he has any kind of heart problems it could be dangerous.
I think he offered but she really isn't interested in trying to have sex with him anymore. Sorry I cant blame her. Also at 70, well that pill has side effects. If he has any kind of heart problems it could be dangerous.
I think we can write him off as being co-dependent then! Hopefully, I die before I hit anywhere near 70.
The OP said that he did, reluctantly, agree to try viagra, but he wasn't really into it and she is not attracted to his 'old bones' anyway.
These two have one messed up marriage. I can't believe they agreed to marry when they are not interested, either of them, in sex with each other -- and did not make some kind of plan about how to handle sexual and romantic needs that might arise in the future.
I really have no advice other than get thee to a counselor to untangle this mess. I think they should learn how to communicate better, before they think about whether or not to divorce. Get some clarity.
Maybe he doesn't love her either. Who cares? Maybe he just wanted a companion in his late years.
He probably doesn't love her either, just wants as you said a companion, or maybe a trophy wife.
With that said, if I were him I would consider myself holding all the cards. And tell her if she is even thinking of having an affair, she could leave now and don't let the door hit you on the way out. If he has money, she can be replaced, heck maybe he can replace his women in 6 month intervals.
He probably doesn't love her either, just wants as you said a companion, or maybe a trophy wife.
With that said, if I were him I would consider myself holding all the cards. And tell her if she is even thinking of having an affair, she could leave now and don't let the door hit you on the way out. If he has money, she can be replaced, heck maybe he can replace his women in 6 month intervals.
But he doesn't have money. He has a much younger wife who will be around to change his diapers and puree' his food and look pretty doing it. Good luck finding a replacement.
So basically your saying its ok if she's (any woman) doing it for money, but it not if she just wants a little sex on the side.
Actually, they have been married 10 yrs., he has supported her, she could just divorce him, take half his stuff, get alimony and stick him in a crappy nursing home.
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