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View Poll Results: In general, women don't truly emotionally open up to you until you've had sex with them
True 6 19.35%
False 25 80.65%
Voters: 31. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 03-24-2014, 09:07 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Mighty_Pelican View Post
I've heard this said in various domains of the internet, I wanted to know what this fine lovely upstanding community thinks on the issue.
i mean ... women open up to me emotionally on a regular basis. WAY too much. sex has nothing to do with it.
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Old 03-24-2014, 11:32 AM
 
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One night stands have nothing to do with emotion! It's strictly sex and fulfilling lust for the moment. Women opening up emotionally have to do with trust and each woman's willingness and comfort in doing so. Psychologists don't need to rape clients to get them to talk and neither do good friends and family.
So ... whoredom?

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If we permit a man access to our bodies, we already feel comfortable and emotionally open with them, unless it's a business transaction or whoredom.
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Old 03-24-2014, 11:33 AM
 
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So ... whoredom?
Whoredom sounds interesting.
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Old 03-24-2014, 04:19 PM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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So ... whoredom?
You don't understand the meaning of the word "unless" I guess.
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Old 03-24-2014, 04:22 PM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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i mean ... women open up to me emotionally on a regular basis. WAY too much. sex has nothing to do with it.
Exactly!
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Old 03-24-2014, 04:26 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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False. I'm an emotionally open person - I don't need to have sex with someone first. Now, after having sex with someone that I already have strong feelings for can make me feel closer to that person - but my emotional openness does not depend on having sex.
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Old 03-24-2014, 04:37 PM
 
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You don't understand the meaning of the word "unless" I guess.
Right. That must be it. What does "unless" mean? Let me look it up.

Okay, got it. What you wrote is still sappy nonsense.

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If we permit a man access to our bodies, we already feel comfortable and emotionally open with them, unless it's a business transaction or whoredom.
Having sex, i.e. permitting access to our bodies, does not require feeling comfortable and emotionally open with a man.
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Old 03-24-2014, 05:01 PM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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Right. That must be it. What does "unless" mean? Let me look it up.

Okay, got it. What you wrote is still sappy nonsense.



Having sex, i.e. permitting access to our bodies, does not require feeling comfortable and emotionally open with a man.
I guess this was too complicated for you to comprehend:

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Originally Posted by Yiuppy View Post
One night stands have nothing to do with emotion! It's strictly sex and fulfilling lust for the moment. Women opening up emotionally have to do with trust and each woman's willingness and comfort in doing so. Psychologists don't need to rape clients to get them to talk and neither do good friends and family.
As for your post, I'm saying yes it does require we already be comfortable or desiring of our partner before sex, UNLESS we're just having sex for pure fun, lust, or prostitution and there's nothing emotionally growing about none of those. Basically meaning the same thing someone else just said about sex not being the determining factor in whether a woman is willing to open up to a person. Hence, women opening up to people they never had sex with.

But you're someone who thinks people need to be raped into emotional openness so (d'oh!) why am I even using rational logic to explain anything to you. The poll and opinions of people show that your thinking is nonsense. Girl bye.

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Old 03-24-2014, 05:17 PM
 
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Thanks for amending the previous illogical and untrue statement.
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Old 03-24-2014, 05:24 PM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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Thanks for amending the previous illogical and untrue statement.
Actually I underscored it. Again, you don't understand words.
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