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Old 04-02-2014, 12:33 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Originally Posted by oh-eve View Post
That SUCKS.
What's the alternative, grit your teeth through indefinite bad sex? I guess some women would be up for it, but I wouldn't.

 
Old 04-02-2014, 12:39 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Women can't be that hopeless in bed. Can they???

Oh yes, for a myriad of reasons. Some just freeze up like statues, they're the worst. You try to talk to them later (outside of the bedroom) because you like them and you're concerned... wondering what you can do to help them relax and make it more enjoyable, ask where they're coming from, how they're feeling, what should I do different, if we should slow down, etc and they just stare like you have a screw loose and tell you they had a great time; that's just how they are.

There are other ways people are hopeless in bed, but that is the worst IMO.
 
Old 04-02-2014, 12:39 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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What's the alternative, grit your teeth through indefinite bad sex? I guess some women would be up for it, but I wouldn't.
I did for years. I thought everything else is okay and I just have to SUCK IT up. I didn't want to be superficial. Mistake. Won't happen again.
 
Old 04-02-2014, 12:39 PM
 
Location: Pa
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That's what I do with women that are hopeless in bed. We're just not on the same page, I'm not feeling a connection, or any other number of reasons.
You have sex?
 
Old 04-02-2014, 12:40 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Oh yes, for a myriad of reasons. Some just freeze up like statues, they're the worst. You try to talk to them later (outside of the bedroom) because you like them and you're concerned... wondering what you can do to help them relax and make it more enjoyable, ask where they're coming from, how they're feeling, if we should slow down, etc and they just stare like you have a screw loose and tell you they had a great time; that's just how they are.

There are other ways people are hopeless in bed, but that is the worst IMO.
Yikes.
 
Old 04-02-2014, 12:41 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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You have sex?
Huh, attempt at a joke? Most people do. Of course I do.
 
Old 04-02-2014, 12:43 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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Not big enough, and that is the point. No chic wants to be blowing a dude n be all like, 'Hey I got room for a couple more in here'.. Lmao

I just spit my water reading that! LOL...the crazy part is that I agree with you 1000%. I'm not a size queen, but a 1 in peen ain't cuttin' it for me. Long, long time ago I very briefly dated a guy who was super small. There was no girth at all to it and it was no more than 5 inches (I promise you, I am not exaggerating). While giving him oral I felt like I could whistle Dixie and have room for 2 more. I just wasn't turned on by him. Again, I'm not a size queen but I like a little challenge
 
Old 04-02-2014, 12:43 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Yikes.

I've only run into a few of those, one I really liked (she's now married), so it is rare, thankfully.
 
Old 04-02-2014, 12:46 PM
 
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I did for years. I thought everything else is okay and I just have to SUCK IT up. I didn't want to be superficial. Mistake. Won't happen again.
The "unteachable" part you mentioned is key, though. Sometimes there's something to work with, sometimes not, and it really depends on the individuals.

I remember one guy who was just an abominable kisser. He sucked on my lips so much that they were swollen and sore, and he did this awful lizard tongue-flicking thing. No no no no no. Not teaching that guy.
 
Old 04-02-2014, 12:47 PM
 
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Sex is supposed to feel good for all the players. So if he/she is too big it isn't fun. By that same token, if he/she is too small it doesn't get it done either.

Sex is a very important component in a relationship. Tiny works for some. Not so much for others. I am proud of what I carry.
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