I'm sick of my divorce !!!!! (boyfriend, married, women, mistress)

[cautiousmom]

We were married for 23 years, I thought happily. Then about three years ago, on Christmas Day in Disneyland, he left me and our two children to be with his mistress of 6 years (!!!!), a convicted prostitute, who just happen to have followed us to Disneyland and was threatening to commit suicide one floor above us in the same hotel. Anyway, at first he was so sorry. Now he's vengeful because I started a new relationship. He and his attorney are doing everything they can to string the divorce out so that any money that I might get will be eaten up in attorney fees (he actually said this). Anyway, I just had to vent. Thanks.

[DCNative]

Need a hug? I'm giving some out for free...

[Miborn]

I am so sorry.......

[cautiousmom]

Please...

[DCNative]

[Miborn]

Your ex deserves someone like that! Just be thankful you are not still with him....

[coldwine]

You know, if you're successful you can make him pay attorneys fees. Especially if you tell the judge that's what he said

[cautiousmom]

Thanks for the hug and the well wishes. At this point there is a big trust fund, that thankfully my attorney is in charge of or there really wouldn't be anything left because he is blowing through money like nobody's business. The thing is, I want to be able to buy a house so that when he and the ho blow through everything he has, my kids will have some place to live that can't be taken away. I say this because he stopped paying the house payment and support summer before last after I went public with the relationship, so our house was foreclosed on. Also about that time my car was repossessed. Fortunately, my boyfriend helped my get my car back so at least I had a vehicle. For a while I thought we would be homeless. Thank goodness for yard sales! Finally, my sister loaned me the money to get an attorney, who finally got support awarded.... though it has been a struggle to get him to pay. I have been looking for a job since last May. But I think employers are reticient because I have no recent work experience (though I do have a lot of past experience). I have taken A LOT of pre-employment tests and always am in the top 10 list to interview, but as of yet have not gotten a job. I'm hoping the new year has better things in store. I have another interview on the 18th of this month. Hopefully, this will work out. I need a break........

[ronaldl79]

You were married for 23 years, but you're already into a new relationship? Your divorce isn't even finalized ... women.

[Miborn]

He cheated on her for 6 yrs while they were married. She owes her husband nothing. Plus they have not been together for 3 yrs........