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For me, no mental hang-ups about sex and multi-orgasmic. Nothing gets me going more then when a woman gets going and orgasms and wants more. She should also know her own body. As every single woman on this planet is different with how she will be pleased, her knowing her own body and how it ticks and not being afraid to let you know is key too.
She should also not be afraid to get messy, sweaty and lose all control. Passionate kissing is awesome too. She should be able to go from light playful sensual, to being tossed around and taken. I like a woman who builds up from light and sensual to aggressive and not afraid to tell me what she wants.
Physically, she does not have to be perfect, but also not afraid to show me what she has and be proud of what she has.
Outside the bedroom, she knows she's as sexy as can be, but not show it off too much in public. She saves it all for me.
You sound exactly like someone I used to know *sigh*
I don't know about Ruth, but those are things that I've been told by men.
I could be wrong, but I assumed the OP was asking from a male point view. That would be like me trying to answer for a woman "what makes a man good in bed"? It's kind of a pointless question anyway, because every man is different. Mod cut. Any woman I sleep with I would probably have to reprogram her anyway to make her have sex the way I wanted.
I don't know about skillzzz and experience because I was a virgin when I did it with my husband when we're still dating but apparently as I quote my husband :
A woman who is comfortable with her sexuality and the fact that she not only wants but also enjoys/loves sex.
A woman who knows her body, how it works and responds, and what works best to get the desired result.
A woman who loves it when I take my time exploring her body with my eyes, hands, and lips before jumping in.
A woman who looks at me with "the look" as only she can give.
A woman who knows how to take me to the brink before gently bringing me back and repeating it all over again.
A woman who understands that guys, too, enjoy foreplay (both out and in the bedroom).
A woman who gives nonsexual cues that she finds me physically attractive and wants to **** me asap!
Etc. etc.
Basically, a woman who is good in bed has many of the same qualities as a man who is good in bed: Comfort, communication, and contact. It's all about being totally focused on the other person (me) as much as she is herself.
I don't know about skillzzz and experience because I was a virgin when I did it with my husband when we're still dating but apparently as I quote my husband :
...was the best I ever had in a loong time....
LOL it was so good for him he married me.
he probably haven't had sex in a really looooong time
I'm just guessing, or you could just be a natural badass in the sack
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