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It's interesting that you always hear women say that they don't like players and yet when a man who is a player walks into the room women are clearly drawn to him. At least from what I've seen women do tend to think that men who have been around are "real" men while men who haven't are so much. So I figured I'd make a poll about it. What do you ladies think of playboys and womanizers? Does it matter what age he is? Is there a certain age at which a man should stop being a ladies man and be in a relationship?
When a womanizer or "player" walks into a room, women aren't attracted to him because he's a player. They don't even know him. However, if they do go out with him and realize it.. they'll most likely dump him.
I don't understand how this is even a question or how you find this worth of discussion.
When a womanizer or "player" walks into a room, women aren't attracted to him because he's a player. They don't even know him. However, if they do go out with him and realize it.. they'll most likely dump him.
I don't understand how this is even a question or how you find this worth of discussion.
I'm surprised you don't think it should be a topic for discussion.
Players become (or remain) players precisely because a lot of women either can't tell, or don't care. Burgler's right about women not being attracted to a player by nature of them being one, but that doesn't mean they're not attracted at all.
It often won't last long...either the player hits it and quits it or the woman comes to her senses (assuming that's not all she wanted as well), but you won't get very many people being honest with themselves about the initial attraction.
By that, I mean, you're not going to find many women coming in here and saying "yes, I'm attracted to players". You're going to see an overwhelming majority in the middle category, followed by the third category.
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Unfortunately, most women prefer the womanizer, aka alpha male.
Ironically, they claim to want someone who wants more than sex, will listen to their problems, go shopping with them, watch girly movies with them, etc., but that is a different person than the alpha male.
And ultimately, most prefer to be with the alpha male. They say the alpha male is "confident", that is to say, he dominates them, and since they want to be submissive, they go with him.
The weird part is that even many of the tough girls, the kind I am most attracted to, will go with alpha males. You would think a tough girl would want the beta male, since she already has dominance in her life. Weird.
Well i think most smart woman do not go after players once they been hurt by one . It is only the stupid young woman (18-25) that keep on getting played and played .
I in someway wish i was a player type playing woman better then Tiger Woods plays golf (in his prime).
The weird part is that even many of the tough girls, the kind I am most attracted to, will go with alpha males. You would think a tough girl would want the beta male, since she already has dominance in her life. Weird.
I hate using alpha/beta type terminology, but you shouldn't be surprised by this quote. A lot of people (men and women) want something outside of their every day life.
High-powered executive types are VERY common clientele for dominatrices. These are men who control the lives and finances of thousands or more, but then turn around and PAY to be subjected to humiliation and loss of control that they don't get in their every day lives. People that know more about psychology than I do would explain it as needing a sort of "balance" (or something, I'm not an expert).
Unfortunately, most women prefer the womanizer, aka alpha male.
Ironically, they claim to want someone who wants more than sex, will listen to their problems, go shopping with them, watch girly movies with them, etc., but that is a different person than the alpha male.
And ultimately, most prefer to be with the alpha male. They say the alpha male is "confident", that is to say, he dominates them, and since they want to be submissive, they go with him.
The weird part is that even many of the tough girls, the kind I am most attracted to, will go with alpha males. You would think a tough girl would want the beta male, since she already has dominance in her life. Weird.
They'd probably date the womanizer, probably even sleep with him. What happens afterwards won't be what they were looking for, but hey, he knew what he was doing!
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