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Old 04-16-2014, 02:43 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Bro, you handled the situation perfectly.
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Old 04-16-2014, 02:51 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Wow congratulations, what a pleasant surprise. I think this is the first time someone who posted a thread asking if he were a jerk DIDN'T confirm exactly that.

Last edited by Adhom; 04-16-2014 at 03:13 PM.. Reason: made a mistake and ended up saying the opposite
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Old 04-16-2014, 02:53 PM
 
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Wow congratulations, what a pleasant surprise. I think this is the first time someone who posted a thread asking if he was a jerk confirm exactly that.
Hey, like I said.. I feel bad. I'm not gloating im sad for her.
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Old 04-16-2014, 02:53 PM
 
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Wow congratulations, what a pleasant surprise. I think this is the first time someone who posted a thread asking if he was a jerk confirm exactly that.

Only on CD is standing up for yourself being a jerk.
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Old 04-16-2014, 03:07 PM
 
Location: Virginia
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Only on CD is standing up for yourself being a jerk.
Yeah I know, like he is supposed to pick up the other guy's leftovers or if not then he is a jerk
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Old 04-16-2014, 03:12 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Actually I made a mistake. I meant to say he didn't confirm exactly that. I know, I said the exact opposite of what I meant. OP, you did good. You're not a jerk.
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Old 04-16-2014, 03:22 PM
 
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Borderline nut job; perhaps a drama queen.

Be very careful.

So far you have been very smart.
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Old 04-16-2014, 03:24 PM
 
Location: DFW
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Borderline nut job; perhaps a drama queen.
She could be his future Ex wife and receiver of his child support.
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Old 04-16-2014, 03:28 PM
 
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She also told me it was cruel of me to told her I was very interested at the time, and accused me of rubbing it in as if I'm punishing her...which I swear is not the case.

eh, don't take it personally she is hurting right now more from the guy who dumped her than you but you happen to be closer so she is pushing it on you right now.
In my opinion from what you have written you handled things quite well and found out early that she is not emotionally mature nor ready for a real long term relationship.

Wish her well, block all contact from her and move on.
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Old 04-16-2014, 05:29 PM
 
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Wow congratulations, what a pleasant surprise. I think this is the first time someone who posted a thread asking if he were a jerk DIDN'T confirm exactly that.
Definitely .
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