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Go for it, Ruth. She was asking where all the ultra rich people in NYC live. Maybe he's got some moolah.
Well, we know he's got an important job that involves working with lawyers, and long distance travel between branch offices. And we know he's a very supportive, devoted, bend-over-backwards for his SO type of guy. So--I'm in!
Go for it, Ruth. She was asking where all the ultra rich people in NYC live. Maybe he's got some moolah.
Interesting how she was asking this last month but has been dating this guy according to her original post for a year now. How time flies...
Original Poster: I don't see anything confusing except for your writing. You stated the boyfriend told you clearly he is going to be traveling for a month for his job and will not have time for you but will when he gets things straightened out at work.
That sounds pretty clear to me so where exactly does the confusion come in?
Not quite. I think it's 3/4. Close enough though. lol
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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth
Well, we know he's got an important job that involves working with lawyers, and long distance travel between branch offices. And we know he's a very supportive, devoted, bend-over-backwards for his SO type of guy. So--I'm in!
Yay! Good luck, Ruth! I'm rootin' for ya!
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Originally Posted by CSD610
Interesting how she was asking this last month but has been dating this guy according to her original post for a year now. How time flies...
Hahaha how ridiculous.. He gets stressed out dealing with some major work issues and travel and she just basically disappears? No support or anything? Wow..
Two qualities that get a woman kicked to the curb quickly in my book.
1. Can't understand the importance of a career. I.e. complaining I have to go to work, trying to get me to stay home, etc.
2. Trying to convince me not to go to the gym and hang out with her instead, all the time..
A significant other should understand that things are important to you if done within reasons. Sure I can quit my job and make 100k less somewhere else, or I could quit going to the gym and get fat and out of shape.. But I have a feeling those are typically qualities that people look for in a significant other.. Success and Health, as long as both are done within reason.
It's also interesting 0521ny has never come back to her own thread. Makes me wonder if it's real.
That said, if this is true, it may be he has a girlfriend or has decided to check out of the relationship for other reasons. No decent guy, due to job stress, does this type of behaviour change.
Interesting, It sounds, like all of you disappear from your love ones when you have a problem. Is that how you handle things?
I have had relationships in the past and I never had anyone disappearing like that and YES it were moments when things were not right, we solved things together arent relationships to support each other????
I called him/texted him SEVERAL TIMES he responded to only one text
"Hey I am sorry I am busy dealing with major problems, I know i am pushing you away"
So I tried! He didnt want me around AT ALL.....
days after I get that email.
Hey, you're back all of a sudden.
Sounds like he is having problems with the relationship. maybe be direct with him and ask him about it.
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