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View Poll Results: Would you date someone who was knowingly the other man/woman?
Yes 13 33.33%
No 26 66.67%
Voters: 39. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 04-19-2014, 02:53 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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I would, and unknowingly have. Most people I know, (as it turns out) have at one point or another been caught up or confused by Love.. Every relationship is unique & develops in its own special way...It's really none of my business to ask a potential partner "So hey, do you cheat?"..lol
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Old 04-19-2014, 02:55 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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LOl.... some of these posts just amaze me.......
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Old 04-19-2014, 02:58 PM
 
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LOl.... some of these posts just amaze me.......
Would it be worth coming to an internet forum if posts were always entirely predictable and obvious?
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Old 04-20-2014, 09:09 AM
 
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From my experience I have found that more men have issues with their partner having been the other person than women do. In a way for a man being the OM can increase your demand in a sense.
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Old 04-20-2014, 09:38 AM
 
Location: North Carolina
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It's really none of my business to ask a potential partner "So hey, do you cheat?"..lol
If that's not your business, then what is?!

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Old 04-20-2014, 11:23 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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If that's not your business, then what is?!

I was thinking the exact same thing when I read that post.

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Old 04-20-2014, 01:36 PM
 
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If that's not your business, then what is?!

I'm one of those people who doesn't want to know the intimate details of a potential partner's past relationships. I don't wanna know how many sex partners they had, or hear about that 3some they had in college.. If it comes up later, we can talk about it then. But I don't enjoy digging up old dirt on somebody in order to run through a list of dealbreakers. That's just not my style..I respect a person's right to privacy while getting to know them.

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Old 04-21-2014, 02:44 AM
 
Location: I don't know..If you find me, let me know.
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Nope...
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Old 04-21-2014, 03:49 AM
 
Location: London
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Believe it or not, she has talked to me about him more than she even talked about her ex-husband. Honestly, I sometimes wonder if she would have still blocked his number had we not gotten back together.
She will run back to him at the drop of a hat. Drop her.
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Old 04-21-2014, 03:59 AM
 
Location: London
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Someone who knowingly dates a married person is low. If the marriage fails the fall out is far and wide and can be devastating if children are involved.

I did date a married lady once unknowingly. When I found out she was married I dropped her like a stone and gave her a lecture. She eventually was divorced. I would hate to think I had anything to do with that.

If you are single and can't get another single person (there are many around), you need to have good hard look at yourself.
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