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Old 04-25-2014, 01:35 PM
 
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The context does matter. This one is in the middle of "I asked how I rank compared to men in past relationships" and "it came out of nowhere". I agree with Tjenkins602 that she didn't need to go there. However, her comment wasn't that you're not good looking. I think drawing that conclusion says something about your mindset, as does asking the question in the first place, even playfully. Maybe something to think about.
Yeah, I'm considering that too.

 
Old 04-26-2014, 10:01 AM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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I don't see why this is so important, but here it goes. I was at her place. Her mom always used to say that I am cute. That night also she said something similar.... so I winked at my ex and said, "Well, what do you think?" It wasn't even a question but a playful gesture, yet she answered with all seriousness... that I am cute but others are hotter. Make of it what you will.
Of course context matters... that's why many have asked and you have ducked.
Oh well, at least you have learned why it's best to not look a gift horse the mouth.
 
Old 04-26-2014, 10:44 AM
 
Location: India
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Of course context matters... that's why many have asked and you have ducked.
Oh well, at least you have learned why it's best to not look a gift horse the mouth.
Hmm, aren't you a ray of sunshine!
 
Old 04-26-2014, 11:09 AM
 
Location: North Idaho
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Originally Posted by geniusss;34522482.......... Her mom always used to say that I am cute. That night also she said something similar.... so I winked at my ex and said, "Well, what do [I
you[/i] think?" .........
My best guess is that she is irritated by her mother's constantly fawning over you. And you were definitely fishing for compliments, which is a very irritating personality trait.
 
Old 04-26-2014, 11:31 AM
 
Location: India
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My best guess is that she is irritated by her mother's constantly fawning over you. And you were definitely fishing for compliments, which is a very irritating personality trait.
I am a guy. I want to be told I am hot once in a while. Is that wrong?
 
Old 04-26-2014, 12:00 PM
 
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I am a guy. I want to be told I am hot once in a while. Is that wrong?
Move to Arizona in the summer and walk around in a heavy jacket.


Hey, I myself would like to be told that I am "hot" every once in a while. It happens when it happens though.
 
Old 04-26-2014, 02:24 PM
 
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Only an insecure person would feel the need to be validated by others.
 
Old 04-26-2014, 09:09 PM
 
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I am a guy. I want to be told I am hot once in a while. Is that wrong?

No, until you're told you're not that hot.
 
Old 04-26-2014, 11:32 PM
 
Location: India
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No, until you're told you're not that hot.
I agree. It was a blow to my ego, but a necessary lesson.
 
Old 04-27-2014, 02:10 AM
 
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My self esteem is validated everytime my gf does things to me in bed. She obviously thinks im hot enough to do those certain things in bed.
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