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Old 04-20-2014, 04:49 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Well, this one has a backyard for puppies, and BABIES, AND FAMILY!!!!!


Do we have any idea how old they are, or how long they've been together? (no, I will not look through all 3 pages lol)
LOL.


Yeah, we really do need a LOT more info......

Like what you asked, and are they living together now? Is he making money by renting? Would they net more consolidating? Why doesn't she like the current situation? Etc.
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Old 04-20-2014, 04:51 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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I say he burns the house down. Set everyone straight, right then and there.
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Old 04-20-2014, 04:52 PM
 
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They also throw a lot of parties which I don't mind but my gf dislikes it. There is also a little bit of a cultural clash. My gf is from a conservative family in the midwest and that kind of clashes with the Jersey Shore mentality of my friends. She doesn't mind necessarily that I hang out with them she just doesn't like them.
this sounds like an intractable problem.

time for her to bounce. unless you want a new bunch of handpicked friends.
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Old 04-20-2014, 04:52 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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well, op disappeared.
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Old 04-20-2014, 04:53 PM
 
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If I were him, I'd take advantage of the opportunity and use it as rental property. Somehow, I am under the impression that op is a homeowner. I could be wrong though.
I own the home just let my friends chill there as long as they cover some expenses and give me an owner's fee. My GF wants us to play house there.
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Old 04-20-2014, 04:54 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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I own the home just let my friends chill there as long as they cover some expenses and give me an owner's fee. My GF wants us to play house there.
well, if I were you, I'd never mix finance with pleasure. GF = pleasure, house = business. But that is just me. If want to play house with her, then go for it.

Why not talking to your relatives or parents about this?
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Old 04-20-2014, 04:55 PM
 
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well, if I were you, I'd never mix finance with pleasure. GF = pleasure, house = business. But that is just me. If want to play house with her, then go for it.

Why not talking to your relatives or parents about this?
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Old 04-20-2014, 04:55 PM
 
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I own the home just let my friends chill there as long as they cover some expenses and give me an owner's fee. My GF wants us to play house there.
Frankly, if she doesn't have the cojones to be upfront and honest with you about what she wants, I'd be rethinking the whole relationship. You even said it's not in your best interest with where you work.
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Old 04-20-2014, 04:56 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Frankly, if she doesn't have the cojones to be upfront and honest with you about what she wants, I'd be rethinking the whole relationship. You even said it's not in your best interest with where you work.
In a nutshell.

OP, if a manipulative, domineering person is who you want to have kids with and live out your life with, go for it.
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Old 04-20-2014, 04:56 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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Frankly, if she doesn't have the cojones to be upfront and honest with you about what she wants, I'd be rethinking the whole relationship. You even said it's not in your best interest with where you work.
Yeah, this.

Op, do you know WHY does she want you two to move in to that house? Ask her.
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