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View Poll Results: When was the last time you asked a woman out?
Within the last 24 hours 2 3.92%
Within the last week 4 7.84%
Within the last month 13 25.49%
Within the last 6 months 9 17.65%
Over a year 23 45.10%
Voters: 51. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 08-12-2014, 03:23 PM
 
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Women talk hella **** to their girlfriends about this "loser" who tried to "approach them." I know my female friends talk hella **** when a guy approached them.
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Old 08-12-2014, 03:34 PM
 
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Women talk hella **** to their girlfriends about this "loser" who tried to "approach them." I know my female friends talk hella **** when a guy approached them.
Some women do that... guess what, they are the same uppity women who call other women losers and such because they aren't part of the "in" crowd. Best to avoid those types who are into "keeping up with the Jones'." They look down their noses at others not part of their clique--and it's not limited to people with certain genitalia.
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Old 08-12-2014, 03:36 PM
 
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I haven't had any prospects in a while where I felt any real sense of optimism so I didn't ask them out
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Old 08-12-2014, 03:50 PM
 
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You jest. 4 and a half years
Nope. I'm serious. And when the guy approached me in 2010, it was so great. He came to install my telephone line in my home when I moved. It was like the heavens dropped him out of the sky. I really liked him but then he started scaring me and I stopped talking to him after a while. I wish something like that would happen again.

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Also women in customer service positions, like waitresses and receptionists, and women in urban areas who walk and take public transportation often. A woman who goes from her house to her car and from her car to work, and who sits in a quiet office all day isn't going to be hit on often. A woman who isn't into the bar scene isn't going to be hit on often.
Yup, the latter is me. Maybe I should get a 2nd job as a waitress, barista or bartender. Then I'd have tons of guys hitting on me.
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Old 08-12-2014, 04:30 PM
 
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Bump
Stirring some trouble up huh?
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Old 08-12-2014, 04:34 PM
 
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Women talk hella **** to their girlfriends about this "loser" who tried to "approach them." I know my female friends talk hella **** when a guy approached them.
For every woman like that, there's a woman wishing guys would approach her. There are all kinds of women out there, each with her own mindset.
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Old 08-12-2014, 04:40 PM
 
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For every woman like that, there's a woman wishing guys would approach her. There are all kinds of women out there, each with her own mindset.
How do we find these types of women? Seems like women (where I'm from) hate being approached.
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Old 08-12-2014, 04:41 PM
 
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How do we find these types of women? Seems like women (where I'm from) hate being approached.
it seems like that everywhere
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Old 08-12-2014, 05:09 PM
 
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Men don't approach much. Look at any post here on this forum... even this poll here where most men haven't approached in a year. A few do, but the vast majority do not (or very rarely do) by they own admittance. So unless the few that do approach are shotgunning and approaching every woman they see, it also means most women are not approached either.

And you think this forum represents real life? You're either messing with us or you're quite delusional. And I truly hope it's the former.


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The point is, most women don't have men coming on to them 24/7 like some guys here seem to think and the way men are responding with about half not even approaching a single woman in a year, it kind of matches what women are claiming about not being approached. And sorry, I don't count the guy in the car who speeds by and does a rebel yell cat call at me as any kind of "real attention."


And again, you seem to think CD represents real life. It doesn't match anything. And it doesn't matter what you "think" counts as attention. That creep, rebel, whatever you want to call him; it still counts as attention. It's still an option for you, even if it's an option you wouldn't exercise. Do women have men come onto them 24/7? No, but don't act like there's women who get none of it. Unless you morbidly obese, all women get male attention to at least some extent. If I can get female attention on a semi-often basis, then I think an average looking woman will get at least an equal amount herself.


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No, they don't. Not even monthly. You have no clue what women's lives are really
like.

Read what I wrote above. Not even monthly? Do you people really post literally anything just to say you're right? If I(a male) can get supposedly more attention than the women here, then I guess I look that damn good then. In which case, Baptiste Giabiconi should be worried about his job with Chanel.
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Old 08-12-2014, 05:15 PM
 
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Read what I wrote above. Not even monthly? Do you people really post literally anything just to say you're right? If I(a male) can get supposedly more attention than the women here, then I guess I look that damn good then. In which case, Baptiste Giabiconi should be worried about his job with Chanel.
Yes, you must be pretty good-looking. Sorry the truth is so hard for you to swallow. Kicking and screaming isn't going to change it.
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