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Ive seen it in other threads. The date thread he showed a complete lack of regard for his date's feeling and when confronted on it state clearly he didn't care about her feelings it was all about his wants/desires and he didn't give a crap.
And if you read this thread you would see that I apologized to her.
This whole think reeks of whineyness and defeatism woman don't find that attractive. Start dieting and go to the gym, Do some Russian twists, squats, bench press, rows, and cardio.
I don't have the time to read through 20 pages but this thread is interesting. The only thing that I have to add is why the hell is there so many rules with getting a woman? I mean COME ON! Its border line dumb the things guys go through just to get a number from a woman. Maybe thats why the OP has anxiety about this stuff. Im not saying that a woman should just hand her number out to just any creep but I have ran into cases were a woman would be attracted to a guy that she met somewhere and declined him because he didn't pronounce a word correctly. No joke.
I don't have the time to read through 20 pages but this thread is interesting. The only thing that I have to add is why the hell is there so many rules with getting a woman? I mean COME ON! Its border line dumb the things guys go through just to get a number from a woman. Maybe thats why the OP has anxiety about this stuff. Im not saying that a woman should just hand her number out to just any creep but I have ran into cases were a woman would be attracted to a guy that she met somewhere and declined him because he didn't pronounce a word correctly. No joke.
I've actually had a girlfriend for almost a month now. But I did have social and approach anxiety when I was younger.
I think I suffer from the same thing the OP is going through. If I see an attractive woman, I start sweating and am afraid. Mind you, I've approached and done poorly, but I'm just not feeling it these days. Not really attractive either.
I approach them, ask them their name, and ask can I get to know them. They say no each time.
Oh, yea, this is definitely not a good plan.
Approach them by finding something to talk about. Ask them about their T shirt, their bumper sticker, ask if they are from around here and do they know of a good restaurant. Has she been here before?
NEVER EVER say "I'd like to get to know you". That's going to sound creepy from a guy who is nervous and sweating.
Make small talk like that with 100 women, THEN start thinking about taking it to the next level. Practice, practice practice.
Having a wingman helps.
And, seriously, talk to your doctor about Paxil. You have a legit case of social anxiety disorder and it WILL Not get better without help.
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