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Old 04-28-2014, 12:32 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I've toured one and it felt like a prison camp! It was all dark and barely anyone there, socially worse than high school. I may never get a shot at having much of a social life now. I hate being alone all the time. I could not believe what I saw. Barely anyone there. It was a small building, no dorms, no activities, just a work skills center place. I thought it was majority depressing and thought it wasn't worth making more money cause I'd probably just live a boring and lonely life. I have no clue how to make a social life outside of the school environment.

The trade center was like a black home sucking my soul! At least make the lights brighter for God's sake! I don't understand the big hype about life as an adult. Working leaves no time to go and be social and have fun. And I have no idea how I'm going to meet a woman, I might have to resort to trying a BAR. I don't belong in a church, and I might not be going to traditional college. What the hell is so exciting about life?

It'll be even worse without getting married and having kids. I'd have a family then. But if I'm alone I'm probably going to play video games all the time. And I might become an alcoholic cause I'll probably turn to drinking.

 
Old 04-28-2014, 01:03 PM
 
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Maybe you should post in the psychology or relationships forum.
 
Old 04-28-2014, 01:08 PM
 
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You should try seeing a counselor. I have a feeling that the trade school isn't the problem.
 
Old 04-28-2014, 01:18 PM
 
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Originally Posted by MynameisnotPeter View Post
I've toured one and it felt like a prison camp! It was all dark and barely anyone there, socially worse than high school. I may never get a shot at having much of a social life now. I hate being alone all the time. I could not believe what I saw. Barely anyone there. It was a small building, no dorms, no activities, just a work skills center place. I thought it was majority depressing and thought it wasn't worth making more money cause I'd probably just live a boring and lonely life. I have no clue how to make a social life outside of the school environment.

The trade center was like a black home sucking my soul! At least make the lights brighter for God's sake! I don't understand the big hype about life as an adult. Working leaves no time to go and be social and have fun. And I have no idea how I'm going to meet a woman, I might have to resort to trying a BAR. I don't belong in a church, and I might not be going to traditional college. What the hell is so exciting about life?

It'll be even worse without getting married and having kids. I'd have a family then. But if I'm alone I'm probably going to play video games all the time. And I might become an alcoholic cause I'll probably turn to drinking.

The deal is to work so you can do things that you want to do. Just go to the bar. I am the King of the Dive Bar Preservation Society and I will help you in your journey.
 
Old 04-28-2014, 07:53 PM
 
Location: Texas
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The deal is to work so you can do things that you want to do. Just go to the bar. I am the King of the Dive Bar Preservation Society and I will help you in your journey.
Can real relationship happen with a woman you meet at a bar and sleep with one night? I've heard that can turn into the real deal.
 
Old 04-28-2014, 08:00 PM
 
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Just go to a different trade school.
 
Old 04-28-2014, 10:54 PM
 
Location: NC
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Why bother with a trade school if you've already graduated from troll school?
 
Old 04-29-2014, 06:12 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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"Are trade schools miserable? "

Apparently the boys going to them are....
 
Old 04-29-2014, 07:17 AM
 
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Can real relationship happen with a woman you meet at a bar and sleep with one night? I've heard that can turn into the real deal.
Yes. I am not neccessarily advocating pursuing an immediate tryst. Talk to the woman and get the digits or fb information. If she goes further and pushes for something that night then act on it. Otherwise stay in contact with her and see what happens from there.
 
Old 04-29-2014, 01:27 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Here we go again!!! Another piteous, self-indulgent lament by the OP about how his life will be so miserable because he has to grow up. Your act is getting really old. There are at least two other threads where you whined about impending adulthood just like this one, and posters gave you good advice, which you promptly made excuses for why you couldn't follow any of it. Did you ride your bike into town to find a job yet?

It's time to grow up, Peter Pan, so get to it.
SORRY, I had a major depression episode! I didn't even feel that way until after the first paragraph. It started about halfway through the second paragraph.

And growing up is not supposed to be miserable. Watch American Pie movies, the movie Accepted (not an American Pie movie).
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