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Old 05-01-2014, 09:27 AM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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I made an off-handed comment about how I thought it was weird that my roommates were hanging out with a couple female friends a lot (since I know one of the female friends is in a relationship) and mentioned that a lot of guys get attracted to their female friends. She thought I was being degrading to women, presumably thinking that I thought women were only for sex, or something along those lines. I apologized and explained that that's not what I meant at all. She said it was okay and that she believed me (although it's clear she's still a little irritated)

She sounds perfect for CD-Rel forum!
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Old 05-01-2014, 09:27 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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We're both 24. Been together about 4.5 months now.
Don't you think you're a little old to be dealing with this? Is this your first relationship?
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Old 05-01-2014, 09:29 AM
 
Location: New York, NY
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Don't you think you're a little old to be dealing with this? Is this your first relationship?
Yes, it is.
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Old 05-01-2014, 09:44 AM
 
Location: Idaho
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You apologized. Let it go. Be nice. Give her a little time to work it out in her own mind. Don't bring it up again. You 'guys' are still in the very early stages of a relationship.
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Old 05-01-2014, 09:50 AM
 
Location: Missouri
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This is my third post on this thread, I hope you're reading these: you are headed to a dark place with this relationship. Time to man up! Stop apologizing and realize that she doesn't respect you!
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Old 05-01-2014, 09:57 AM
 
Location: NY
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If the behavior continues, I think you should bring it up. It sounds like she is emotionally punishing you for days based on a discussion about a third party incident. She is blowing it way out of proportion, but also seems that she is making a character determination about you on it.
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Old 05-01-2014, 10:07 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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If the behavior continues, I think you should bring it up. It sounds like she is emotionally punishing you for days based on a discussion about a third party incident. She is blowing it way out of proportion, but also seems that she is making a character determination about you on it.
If it continues he should not bring it up, he should dump her. I would not give her much time.

This type of behavior is the type of behavior of the worst type of girlfriend to have.
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Old 05-01-2014, 10:15 AM
 
Location: Missouri
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If it continues he should not bring it up, he should dump her. I would not give her much time.

This type of behavior is the type of behavior of the worst type of girlfriend to have.
I agree..she's already starting to walk all over him
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Old 05-01-2014, 10:18 AM
 
Location: Terra
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Without reading any replies, I have a feeling she was doing something other than "chatting" with a "co-worker" based on how long it took to reply and how ridiculous the excuse was. Watch out, OP.
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Old 05-01-2014, 10:28 AM
 
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Whoa.

First off, don't mention her being late. Act like you don't care. That was what is known in the manosphere as a sh1t test. She wanted you to react. Do not.

Secondly, why are you apologizing? You didn't do anything to start a fight. Chicks with boyfriends spending a lot of time with other men is weird.

Seems like you are heading down the path of emasculatization and drama. Get your balls back before she starts getting irritated just by you looking at her funny
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