Guys, how do you feel about one night stands? (issues, surprise, attract)
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Well, I didn't necessarily mean be at each others throats. Just not talk anymore.
I've accused you of being an idealistic dreamer.....
There are worse things to be in this world.
I think I have an idealistic dreamer streak in me as well..........
Hence my disappointment in things between men and women, some of the stuff I read here makes my heart heavy... but I know that most of what I see here is nonsense.......
One night stands don't allow for the true connection that sex is and should be.... just getting your nut off isn't sex.......
How would you feel if a woman you already knew let you know that she wanted to have sex with you one time but didn't want to continue to be friends with you or talk to you afterwards again?
This is not the definition of a one night stand from what I remember so there is no real way to answer this question honestly.
Because motivations for remaining in contact would not be mutual or on the same level.
I don't generally want to bone my friends and if I do I don't consider them "just" friends...I hold that standard to the reverse as well if the information is out there
This is also implying we had been friends beforehand obviously.
If a random women came up to me and I was single, it would be completely situational and depend on who was asking, why they where asking, when they where asking etc... Too many variables to factor in to say a solid yes or no.
It's would be a case by case scenario based on my better judgment
Last edited by rego00123; 05-03-2014 at 11:59 PM..
One night stands don't allow for the true connection that sex is and should be.... just getting your nut off isn't sex.......
Not by a long long shot.......
I don't know ... sex can be about "connection" and expressing love and all that fanciful stuff, or it could just be about sex and the stress relief and physical pleasure it provides.
Hence my disappointment in things between men and women, some of the stuff I read here makes my heart heavy... but I know that most of what I see here is nonsense.......
It is.
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Originally Posted by CSD610
This is not the definition of a one night stand from what I remember so there is no real way to answer this question honestly.
Yes, I wanted to change the title after I posted it but I couldn't. I think the guys got my meaning anyway so it's all good.
I think one night stands are a little harder to pull off in this social media day and age. I got dangerously close to several of them in my early twenties, but I would usually ruin the mood with some sappy s**t about the ex. To answer the question they have always sounded fun in practice, but I'm not the type to pull it off.
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