Have you ever faked an orgasm? (never, definition, feeling, different)
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Some men are quite fast to blame women, but the truth is that both are doing it whether they want to spare an inept partner's feelings or just want to bring things to a close.
There are still many men and women who feel the pressure of "performing" daily or several times a week, no matter if they want it or not, because their partner is expecting it, or else...
I agree, but i'm talking about mature women who are simply unable to reach vaginal orgasm during traditional intercourse not about who's faking orgasms and who's not. And in my opinion which is the Freudian opinion as well the usual reasons are emotional conflict and failure to mature properly and sometimes a medical condition.
But since this thread is about "faking O's" i was a bit off topic.
No wonder so many have disfunctional sex lives. Why would you fake it with anyone you cared about? A simple "not tonight honey" should suffice and any decent human being should be able to take that at face value and not push for anything else. . .
Overly simplistic. You're assuming she's not really interested in the first place. If she's into it but, as time passes, realizes the O is not happening, what is the kind and graceful way to stop him and tell him this? Especially when you recognize that:
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Originally Posted by Philosophizer
How crushing would it be for that guy to discover that a girl simply wasn't into him as much as he was into her.
What do you mean? It's just like a woman faking it. You take off the condom and done. I've never seen a woman grab a condom, open it up, and check.
Heck, even without one I doubt many could tell if a guy was faking.
Yep ^^.
As a man I only faked it once that I remember, when I was very young. She started saying some very strange things and I found it so funny I could not continue. I moaned a few times and she asked me if I did. I replied "Yes" and that was that.
As a man I only faked it once that I remember, when I was very young. She started saying some very strange things and I found it so funny I could not continue. I moaned a few times and she asked me if I did. I replied "Yes" and that was that.
As a man I only faked it once that I remember, when I was very young. She started saying some very strange things and I found it so funny I could not continue. I moaned a few times and she asked me if I did. I replied "Yes" and that was that.
Chuckle. Yes, things like that taught me not to say things like spank mama's b ole b in the height of things.
From a guys POV most guys know when a girl is faking it but chooses to either:
1. Continue on anyway because its sex
2. Try and change it.
I think it's almost more of an ego bruise when she is faking it. However I would rather we tell each other what is wrong and how it can be improved.....gotta have that communication!
Chuckle. Yes, things like that taught me not to say things like spank mama's b ole b in the height of things.
"spank mama's b ole b ". I probably would have liked that, but she was saying some things that were impossible for a human body to do. She was also poking at the back door which threw me off as an 18 year old
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"spank mama's b ole b ". I probably would have liked that, but she was saying some things that were impossible for a human body to do. She was also poking at the back door which threw me off as an 18 year old
hahaha, man... the things I messed up when it was all new... LOL
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