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Old 05-16-2014, 11:40 AM
 
Location: Middle Earth
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Old 05-16-2014, 11:53 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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stay out of it
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Old 05-16-2014, 11:56 AM
 
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Stay the **** out of it. It didn't work 20 years ago it won't work now.
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Old 05-16-2014, 11:57 AM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Do you think life is an effing Hollywood movie?
You are married.
He's getting married.
The End.
Roll credits.
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Old 05-16-2014, 11:57 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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You're just fantasizing of something that isn't gonna happen only because your marriage sucks.

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Old 05-16-2014, 11:58 AM
 
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If he is pursuing you and telling you he wants to be with you, that's one thing.

If he's not, that's another.

From your post above, I take it that of the two scenarios, the latter is the one that fits your situation.

Please leave him alone. Let him get married in peace and be happy.

Btw, if you're married, why is this even an issue?
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Old 05-16-2014, 11:58 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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If you want the tag of homewrecker and are a horrible person, by all means pursue this.
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Old 05-16-2014, 12:00 PM
 
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You had nothing to do with his CHOICE to marry another women.
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Old 05-16-2014, 12:00 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I'm sure that hearing about his impending wedding is reviving some feelings in your heart. The problem is that it is a fantasy.

You feel a lack in your own life, and this wedding is kind of like a trauma that makes you feel the pain from your situation even more.

Do what you have to to NOT think about your ex. He is moving on, and you need to fix your own situation for your own sake.
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Old 05-16-2014, 12:04 PM
 
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