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Old 05-21-2014, 07:44 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Originally Posted by dave nz View Post
What do you weigh? just curious, I've dated bigger girls
Like I'm going to say on the net. Hahaha.

I'm strong as a ox but have a feminine built.

 
Old 05-21-2014, 07:55 PM
 
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depends on how you define "fat".

If you mean fat fat(lol), then yes, it can be a deciding factor. I wouldn't say it's the worst thing a woman can be, at all. Being a terrible person is much worse.
 
Old 05-21-2014, 08:09 PM
 
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I don't know if I'd say it's T.H.E. worst, but it's definitely in the Top Three, IMO.
 
Old 05-21-2014, 08:13 PM
 
Location: FL
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Originally Posted by fleetiebelle View Post
It's hard to say. A woman who's a size 14 at 5'1" is not going to weigh the same as a woman who's a size 14 at 5'10".

If you flip through the pictures on MyBodyGallery for size 14 (Welcome - What Real Women Look Like) it ranges from 150-200+.
Now that one there on page 4, 2nd row, pink top, that's where it's at IMO. She could use a little more on top, but she's carrying that 202 lbs. very nicely.
 
Old 05-21-2014, 08:47 PM
 
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Ugly is worse


There's some cute fat chicks
 
Old 05-21-2014, 08:59 PM
 
Location: In nature
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Good grief people being fat must suck after reading this thread.

You either like cushion or you don't.

OP if you've got cushion find a dude that likes that, stay away from those who don't. You'll just end up getting hurt
 
Old 05-22-2014, 08:11 AM
 
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I'm a little worried about how this is going to sound, but I probably would not be attracted to a man who prefers larger women anyway. I never really met one, to be honest..if they said it, I usually thought to myself that either they were lying or the reason for their preference was that a heavier woman was easier to date initially and easier to "manage" within a relationshp. I know this sounds awful but I actually know a few heavy women who would pretty much do anything to hold onto the man in their lives, if they managed to meet and pair up with one. I can't see myself in that kind of life. I require mutual respect and a reasonable amount of equality in my relationships.
Yes you sound awful.

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This is my take. Morbid obesity is turnoff to me. But that has more to do with health issues and taking care of one's self more than anything else. However, I have always had a thing for women who have the "cute face, chubby waist", women who has a pretty face and a bit of extra weight. I actually like that. One example would be Rachael Ray. I can date a woman who is slim as well. Being "chubby" is not a deal breaker for me. It's being a slob that is a deal breaker.
Rachel Ray is your idea of chubby? LOL

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Originally Posted by 14Bricks View Post
I hear people say that on here all the time but I never see that. Do I see fat women with husbands/boyfriends? Yes, but the men are usually fat themselves or look like they just got out of jail and have nothing going for them.
What does someone who just got out of jail look like?


OP,

It's not your dress size, it's your attitude. Change that first.
 
Old 05-22-2014, 08:16 AM
 
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Rachel Ray is your idea of chubby? LOL
I'm trying to think of more celebrities who would be considered "chubby" as far as women goes. Rachael Ray was the closest one I could think of. And her weight has fluctuated frequently.
 
Old 05-22-2014, 08:18 AM
 
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Now that one there on page 4, 2nd row, pink top, that's where it's at IMO. She could use a little more on top, but she's carrying that 202 lbs. very nicely.
Blech!!! Are you serious?

She's carrying around two Christmas hams where her hips/thighs should be.

You should try out online dating, that's what constitutes an "Average body type" on POF (Plenty Of Fatties).
 
Old 05-22-2014, 08:46 AM
 
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Originally Posted by usamathman View Post
Big girls that work out are 1000 times more attractive then ones that don't.

My suggestion to you. Get in the gym if you are not happy with your body.

No man wants a lazy...sloppy woman.
Ladies, take it from another lady who pushes the weights in the gym. If you want a man to fall in love with your "inner" beauty, plenty of men find the self-discipline and dedication that goes into getting in shape and staying in shape, very beautiful, indeed.
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