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I think women assume that a lot of shy, introverted, unconfident guys like myself are asexual or uninterested in relationships. The truth is that we're very sexual and affectionate, would really love to have a girlfriend, but our outer personality has been shaped from getting burned and getting confirmation that we're unattractive.
Healthy people don't have a relationship with someone just because they want the feeling of being in a relationship. There has to be something special about the person that makes being with them more satisfying than being alone or with someone else. The whole "I don't have anything else going on so why not?" is enough to consider a date, but not a relationship.
I think women assume that a lot of shy, introverted, unconfident guys like myself are asexual or uninterested in relationships. The truth is that we're very sexual and affectionate, would really love to have a girlfriend, but our outer personality has been shaped from getting burned and getting confirmation that we're unattractive.
There are many women out there for you. I've seen all types of couples. A few days ago i saw once again lookswise an above average guy with a way below average woman. Kids in tow also. Probably she has a great personality. Who knows.
I think women assume that a lot of shy, introverted, unconfident guys like myself are asexual or uninterested in relationships. The truth is that we're very sexual and affectionate, would really love to have a girlfriend, but our outer personality has been shaped from getting burned and getting confirmation that we're unattractive.
Guys like this need to accept they have very little chance with women and move on.
Healthy people don't have a relationship with someone just because they want the feeling of being in a relationship. There has to be something special about the person that makes being with them more satisfying than being alone or with someone else. The whole "I don't have anything else going on so why not?" is enough to consider a date, but not a relationship.
Quoted because it bears repeating.
And not for nothing, but healthy people would rather a partner be in love with them, than in love with love. When people are in love with love, it doesn't matter who their partner is, just as long as they have one. That means their partners are easily replaced. Who wants to feel like they are easily replaced?
OP, your attitude toward relationships would make a woman feel easily replaced.
If my friends gave me crap on this subject, they wouldn't be my friends anymore. I don't tolerate bull**** from anybody. Life is too short to deal with jackasses.
I concur. I had to drop one friend for trying to throw crap at me. If you want to be my friend, don't act like you want to fight me. I will hurt something.
In reality, it's the opposite. The LESS you want to be in a relationship or with a particular person, the more they come around, I'm serious too. I guess it's because when you have this mindset you don't come off as needy or desperate at all whatsoever. Also, some women like the thrill of the chase, or going after something that's practically unattainable.
When you first meet a girl (from a singles site) say to her "Hi There. It doesn't matter to me whether or not I find a one and only and I'm only meeting women from singles sites for the experience of meeting women from singles sites. Now that I told you this, what kind of coffee may I get you?"
I think women assume that a lot of shy, introverted, unconfident guys like myself are asexual or uninterested in relationships. The truth is that we're very sexual and affectionate, would really love to have a girlfriend, but our outer personality has been shaped from getting burned and getting confirmation that we're unattractive.
That's all fine and dandy, but women are usually too into needing men to notice. That's fine, because that's just how it is.
Being ugly...you can fix that with money. Being dumb enough to get into relationships with trash? You can wise up and fix that...eventually.
What does an alpha Lion do? He sits around while the women go out and hunt for him. When they bring the food back what does the alpha Lion do? He eats first. Pretty selfish, huh?
The Lion doesn’t tolerate others eating before him. The best food is his. The alpha Lion doesn’t let other, lesser males mate with his pride. The Lion doesn’t act in a fair and noble manner. The Alpha Lion doesn’t raise other Lion’s children. He’s selfish. And because he is selfish, the Lionesses do everything to make him happy.
Now, I know a lot of guys will say “man, that’s a real douchebag thing to say!” to which I only have one reply: I hope you enjoy jacking off.
Political incorrectness does not make something false.
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