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OP, I can't see her behavior/stress changing anytime soon. I guess you have to decide if you want to deal with this 24/7 or else separate. I used to be very insecure, too, so I'm speaking from experience. Sorry.
While this whole segment is a hysterical look at relationships, the part which best fits here starts around 6:13 (Men feel a lot of pressure when they look down the street...)
While this whole segment is a hysterical look at relationships, the part which best fits here starts around 6:13 (Men feel a lot of pressure when they look down the street...)
Shes the most beautiful girl ever, i dont get why shed be insecure... i always tell her more than once a day and that shes perfect, but she doesnt believe me lol...
Please stop telling her once a day, or more, that she's perfect. No one is perfect, and it becomes meaningless when said all the time. All that flattery is working against you.
Please stop telling her once a day, or more, that she's perfect. No one is perfect, and it becomes meaningless when said all the time. All that flattery is working against you.
Yeah, that's probably a big part of the problem right there. She's aspiring to be perfect when she can't be, it's impossible. ("If only I were perfect, then he wouldn't be looking at other girls.")
Well i got her to give me.her side of the story, so here it is... we dont really agree with each others sides LOL
So I don’t really know where to start. Lately my boyfriend and I have been fighting so much and the fights are generally started by me. But heres why. So first of all were in a long distance relationship, where trust is really all you guys have. We got in a huge argument one day and checking out other people was brought up into the argument. He ends up telling me that he’s been checking out girls alone and when he’s with friends, and making commentary with his friends about girls. (Which is honestly so disrespectful since I didn’t even meet his friends at that point in time) He would say girls are sexy, he’d **** them, things like that. I got extremely mad and questioned being able to trust him because of it, would he take action like he told his friends he would? I never did that to him because I feel like id make him look stupid to my friends for dating me, like I wasn’t serious about him. So why would he do it to me? Anyways, recently we saw each other in person for the second time, I went to visit him. No lie, he checks out girls like crazy. It was automatic for me to check and see where he was looking since he told me he checked out girls, and I watched him stare at girls while we were together. I understand if this is a guy ive been with in person for a year and a half, but were long distance.. are we not supposed to literally cherish every second we have together? Instead he stared at other girls. Not for 2 seconds.. for like 5 or 10.. he would do double and triple looks. Then he would say he didn’t do it or he wasn’t thinking anything.. but knowing what I know how could I believe that? And if hes not thinking anything and it hurts me to see him do that, it shouldn’t be hard to stop if he cared for me like he says he does.. I never would ask him to stop looking around. ITS WHAT HUMANS DO. But when your staring at other girls, especially if that girl sees, I automatically look dumb for being with him and it’s so disrespectful towards me. He seems uninterested in me and I’m starting to feel low about myself. I’m not over exaggerating; I tried finding reasons why he was doing it so I wouldn’t start a fight. I’d try catching him look at someone else the same way or just giving myself stupid reasons to let it go, and most of the time I let it slide. Blindly looking around, and staring are very different. Maybe I am the problem and maybe I shouldn’t be in a relationship in general. He wanted me to post my side, so here it is …
Ok, if indeed you are staring for that long? it isn't cool; makes you look like chump around your girlfriend.
I predict, your relationship with your girlfriend is going to be short lived. I suggest, you enjoy and share the time you have with her now.
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That's why I say it's just easier to acknowledge there's a good-looking person in the vicinity, male or female. 
