Is this guy playing me? (date, girlfriend, girl, call)
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I met this guy briefly for about 5 minutes at a gathering. We became facebook friends. We texted briefly here and there. We agreed we would hang out yesterday and try to do something fun. It's not like I was waiting for his call yesterday, but I didn't hear from him. Night life is fun in my city so I thought maybe we would go out at night. But it's close to 8:30pm and I don't hear from him. I texted him, "So we're not hanging out right?" He replied within a few minutes saying, "Honestly, I got kinda sick last night and I'm not feeling well. I was trying to rest up to go out, but it seems bad. I'm so sorry I really wanted to meet up tonight."
I just replied, "okay feel better." Then, within minutes, he replies, "You know what...can you just give me like 1 hour? my cousin and his gf are eating I may go meet them there. You should just meet me there. Restaurant name."
I got a lil upset, so I just told him, let's just meet next time then. But what angers me more is I looked at his instagram. He doesn't know I know it, but I saw it because it's public. He posted a picture about 4 hours before we chatted of a dog next to a girl's body, and put captions about the dog. come to find out, a girl also posted a picture of that dog. So he clearly went somewhere during the afternoon and he's telling me he's sick??
Okay, so I think he has a gf or is seeing someone, BUT
Around 11:30PM, he texts me. "what you upto?" I reply that I'm at my friends. He then asks me what I'm doing. and that was that.
He is playing you...
First he said he is sick, then he said he will go out to eat with his cousin and his GF - not enough of lies?
He just put you on the back burner. When he has time and he is bored then he MIGHT do something with you...
The best thing to is ignore any further contact from him and keep moving forward. There is no real need for anyone to invite this kind of treatment into their lives voluntarily.
If nothing else, he is an inconsiderate turd. He has no respect for you and it is time for you to completely cut him out of your life...........you got along before you met him and you will get along after you met him.
People like this DO NOT change, and if you keep this relationship going it will only get worse.
I don't think that's where the problem started. He should not have asked you to meet up with his cousin and his cousin's girlfriend. As a guy, inviting a girl to something involving my social circle for a first date is something I avoid. Maybe the second.
The first date should be a one-on-one experience. Nothing else to consider. Time to "next" him.
He's playing you like a fiddle AND he's not very good at it either.
I agree.
Flaky playa.
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