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I put up what I think was a nice picture of myself on one of the OLD sites, wrote what I thought was a funny and honest profile. Ah, maybe I was kidding myself again, that's ok, I constantly overrate my pictures and my style of writing.........Ah, I can redo the words and the pic, no problem and please note that I never ask and am not asking for anyone to evaluate my picture, that's not my point for posting this.
I just wanted to share what I think was an outrageous post and exchange from some woman on the site and I was hoping for some feedback about any woman or man who writes the kind of message such as the following private message to another OLD member considering I hadn't clicked on her profile or wrote to her in probably over a year until I got the following from her a few minutes ago:
Here was her message and my reply. I left out any names and pictures.
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With this picture?!?!? it will be hard for you to find a wife.
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Excuse me? I didn't write and ask you for your opinion or even click on your profile so kindly don't bother me again.
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I remember she had sent me a similar unasked for and insulting message last year and she had rejected a msg from me about two years ago. I had moved on and never bothered with her, I doubt she remembered me as I lost a lot of weight and my picture changed.
Last edited by Simtropico; 06-03-2014 at 12:26 AM..
Just a loser. I used to get some very nasty random messages from guys I never spoke to or even looked at their profile. Some people have no life and no one else wants them so they want to be mean. I would just block her.
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I get a few nasty messages from time to time, from very passionate people, mostly due to my dietary comments or comments about the yoga cult (which are done with humor), but whatever... brush it off. Or even better, get a chuckle out of it. No reason to post it and complain.
Why are you giving this person space in your head? Someone who emails someone to insult them on a dating site because of their PICTURE is clearly mentally ill or at least a few bricks short of a load.
Time to move on, buddy. This is NOTHING compared to what an average woman will deal with during a week. I get incoherent rants, sexual propositions, regular emails from guys who are 40% matches or lower, and god knows what else.
I'll admit that I think that sometimes, when the guy has a pic of himself looking like a scrub, but I'd never message anyone about it.
She just sounds like a troll. Ignore her.
Maybe I might look like a scrub to her but she isn't the type who was in my focus when I put the pic up. I'm a plain dressed kind of guy, I like the casual ladies, the ones in house dresses, the down to earth type who may have a weight problem or be scrawny but not the fancy sleek types......Just to illustrate, if I'm January then she's July. that far away, if I'm England then she's Japan or if I'm New Hampshire say then she's Arizona...........If I'm a Toyota, she's a Mercedes.
She appears to be a very attractive small woman, wise "guy" droll or deadpan expression, in shape, very well dressed with a stylish flair in her rakishly tilted hat, very intelligent and a professional but she's been on the same single forums for years, her pictures don't seem to age much or change, obviously she's not getting what she wants from OLD unless she's a player looking for quick anonymous dates which I doubt.
I felt angry at the moment I read her letter but I don't live in anger.
Last edited by Simtropico; 06-03-2014 at 08:08 AM..
Why are you giving this person space in your head? Someone who emails someone to insult them on a dating site because of their PICTURE is clearly mentally ill or at least a few bricks short of a load.
Time to move on, buddy. This is NOTHING compared to what an average woman will deal with during a week. I get incoherent rants, sexual propositions, regular emails from guys who are 40% matches or lower, and god knows what else.
LOL
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