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Old 06-12-2014, 06:46 AM
 
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You still have to allow for a world of variations amongst a theoretical group of men, though.

appealing to the majority of men seems sufficient to me

 
Old 06-12-2014, 09:06 AM
 
Location: Center of the universe
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i hope you are right, who knows though.
Good luck!
 
Old 06-12-2014, 01:15 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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This is like a the 4th time since the meeting, we have smiled at each other and that's about it. I do want to ask how his meetings are going so I think I will tomorrow.
Woo hoo!!!!! Keep us posted
 
Old 06-12-2014, 01:31 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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This is like a the 4th time since the meeting, we have smiled at each other and that's about it. I do want to ask how his meetings are going so I think I will tomorrow.
YES, make some small talk so he'll see you are interested!!
 
Old 06-12-2014, 06:27 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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I personally find the number of men who approach me increases on the days I am smiling AND wearing a dress.
 
Old 06-12-2014, 06:36 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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we have had eye contact a few times but I cannot read people, so maybe it was nothing. are you saying the lighter thing will not work? I can't touch him, he is a stranger and I bet you only like it if the girl is attractive otherwise no touching right?
You can totally touch strangers! Obviously not in a creepy way, but after interacting for a few minutes. Look for a couple of things...

1. is he getting a little bit closer to you?
2. is he facing you with his whole body? (not just is face, but let's say upper body too?)

You are golden! Now you can touch his shoulder or near the elbow. Or upper back.

These spots are really easy to play off as accidents if he doesn't seem to respond positively.
 
Old 06-12-2014, 06:40 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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This is like a the 4th time since the meeting, we have smiled at each other and that's about it. I do want to ask how his meetings are going so I think I will tomorrow.
That is totally a positive sign! And definitely in the touching is OK range.

I've got a few months long flirtation going now and he went in for the hug after a couple of meetings.
 
Old 06-12-2014, 07:00 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I personally find the number of men who approach me increases on the days I am smiling AND wearing a dress.
Last time I was approached was yesterday by a father of a kid.He was a hot Italian. Shame most are married.
 
Old 06-12-2014, 07:14 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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Last time I was approached was yesterday by a father of a kid.He was a hot Italian. Shame most are married.
Hehe. Don't forget about the old ones!
 
Old 06-12-2014, 07:16 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Hehe. Don't forget about the old ones!
Lol I don't mind the 40 year olds, the 50+ uh no.
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