How are all these women able to get men to approach (hubby, restaurant)
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i have autisim and could never control how things go. i am better off not even bothering with all this bullsh*t and probably better off committing suicide like I planned anyways.
we really need to get you some help, seriously.
and while you think being autistic is bad, how about end stage kidney disease, hypertension, anemia, and diabetes? i suffer from all four of those, and i go on dialysis three times a week for over four hours at a time. i have to watch my intake of fluids, as well as sodium, potassium, and phosphorus(which is in EVERYTHING).
i have autisim and could never control how things go. i am better off not even bothering with all this bullsh*t and probably better off committing suicide like I planned anyways.
Do you have family, a counselor, or a physician? Please talk to them?
i been going once a week to do volunteering with dogs. it's fun and all but i still cannot get dates like other women. something about me the men have never liked. it must be my looks or something that turn them all away from me.
Yay! I'm glad you're enjoying the volunteering
As for your looks, well, we don't know exactly what you look like but to be honest, I'm thinking it's not your looks. I really think it's the message you send with your mannerisms--I think you said you don't smile. Maybe you have a sort of "I don't care what I look like" attitude/vibe? I see unattractive men and women who are married or in relationships and have families. I guarantee it's not looks.
I've had a lot of women start weird conversations with me that never used to happen when I was skinny 7-8 years ago. It never crossed my mind, until recently, that they were flirting with me. Just like that - Asking for lighters, directions (Who doesn't have a smartphone these days?), things to do, etc..
Guys are pretty dumb like that, we respond best to women touching us a lot. Not like groping or anything, just being inside our personal bubble. Man, I love when chicks I don't know touch my arm or bump into me on accident when walking, etc.
this can not be true, is it ?
i will scream if strangers touch my arm or bump into me on accident when walking
Women will not forcefully force a man to approach them. They will however, make it easier for men TO approach. Women get ready and look beautiful for someone, yes other than themselves, and that someone is the perfect man that fits her physical and somewhat confident level of criteria.
At the end of the day, we as men approach. It takes a man with balls to do this. Women do not generally force us or approach us themselves because they are naturally submissive.
And this is why women going for someone out of her league has much more impact on the sexual market than a man doing so. She'll get laid and he won't.
Dating is harder for men.
In the cast majority of cases, men are required to put much more effort into dating. They have to risk rejection and make the first move. They have to pursue the woman, while the woman is pursued. The whole philosophy of dating revolves around the man selling himself to the woman; proving himself to her, persuading her that he is good enough for her, while he already finds her attractive (else why would he date her in the first place?
Attracting women for sex is extremely difficult for most men. It is no wonder that men who can do this easily are hailed as studs or envied by other men. It is something that many single young men wish to do but very few can.
If a guy has been sexually overlooked by women all his life but suddenly due to some change in circumstances he is somehow able to attract women, then a part of him wants to make up for all the lost years. He will tend to overcompensate for all the validation he never had. It is difficult to fill that void that is created in the early years of youth.
When you say dating is harder for men, I hate it when people try to argue that point by saying for every girl that has a boyfriend that guy has a girlfriend, duh I know that but the guy had to do all of the work in order to make it happen, and why is making things happen, taking initiative, how does that give you power? well even if it does give you power it is a power I don't like
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