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Old 06-08-2014, 07:18 PM
 
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Anyone here feel kind of empty or missing that someone tonight? Sigh. I feel so alone even though there's so much going around me. I hate the feeling of not having someone to cover the void after a break up.

Just want to vent for the night. Thank you for reading
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Old 06-08-2014, 07:20 PM
 
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I feel that way quite often. Yesterday, I almost reached out to someone and told him I'd give an LDR a chance after all just so I'd have a chance of having someone in my life, even if I only saw him once or twice a month.
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Old 06-08-2014, 07:24 PM
 
Location: Baltimore, MD
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Yeah, it's a cold and lonely existence for the most part.

Many who are alone feel this way.
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Old 06-08-2014, 07:26 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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I'm sorry to hear that you're lonely. I'd rather be lonely than in an abusive messed up relationship though.
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Old 06-08-2014, 07:28 PM
 
Location: Baltimore, MD
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I feel that way quite often. Yesterday, I almost reached out to someone and told him I'd give an LDR a chance after all just so I'd have a chance of having someone in my life, even if I only saw him once or twice a month.
I thought the same but it didn't work out.

Be careful. I hated the ending.
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Old 06-08-2014, 07:30 PM
 
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Unfortunately I feel that way a lot.

Don't really want a relationship per se. I am not really over the last crush I had though. Never told him how I REALLY felt and it's pretty much over now. Since this last attempt I can't help but wonder why I get so close to having someone I care about just to have it snatched away. It gets tough but I deal with it. I try not to think about love and romance too much. It makes me feel a few unwanted emotions, so I don't like feeling that way.
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Old 06-08-2014, 07:30 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Nights are the hardest, especially Sunday night... IDK.. for some reason I always got a little depressed on Sunday evenings... I guess the weekend is over and facing another work week.

I say this having a SO, so I can imagine it being worse when single.
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Old 06-08-2014, 07:31 PM
 
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I feel that way quite often. Yesterday, I almost reached out to someone and told him I'd give an LDR a chance after all just so I'd have a chance of having someone in my life, even if I only saw him once or twice a month.

Besides the distance, is there anything else you don't like about him? If you like him, I would go for it. Holding back can be so painful.

I was tempted to call that person up and tell him I love him. But that would not be a good idea ....right now anyway. I am planning to tell him in November.
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Old 06-08-2014, 07:36 PM
 
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Yeah, it's a cold and lonely existence for the most part.

Many who are alone feel this way.
Sigh. I can't believe a guy/girl would make a difference you know. I used to think that I need no one. I have my family. I just spent the whole day with them. But there's always this underlying feeling for having that special person .....

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I'm sorry to hear that you're lonely. I'd rather be lonely than in an abusive messed up relationship though.

Sorry to hear that. <hug>

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Unfortunately I feel that way a lot.

Don't really want a relationship per se. I am not really over the last crush I had though. Never told him how I REALLY felt and it's pretty much over now. Since this last attempt I can't help but wonder why I get so close to having someone I care about just to have it snatched away. It gets tough but I deal with it. I try not to think about love and romance too much. It makes me feel a few unwanted emotions, so I don't like feeling that way.

GASP. I am in the same position as you. I told him though but our lives do not allow us to be together right now. Why can't you tell that person?

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Nights are the hardest, especially Sunday night... IDK.. for some reason I always got a little depressed on Sunday evenings... I guess the weekend is over and facing another work week.

I say this having a SO, so I can imagine it being worse when single.
Hmmmm. Perhaps you need to have another SO? lol
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Old 06-08-2014, 07:38 PM
 
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I thought the same but it didn't work out.

Be careful. I hated the ending.
Hah. True for me as well


Idk about feeling lonely....
I was literally walking to my car at work the other day;
A guy comes up to me out of the blue, & proceeds to talk while we walk.
Get about 10 minutes into the very quick conversation & he says that although
I was smiling when he was watching me walk out of work,
he sensed something was missing in my life.
So even if I don't sometimes feel that way....it makes ya wonder.
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