Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
How so? I do not think she was shallow OR inconsiderate.... quite the opposite.
What could she have done better about the situation?
Really ? The considerate thing to do is REPLY , a simple " thank you for taking time to meet me but I'm sorry to say I don't think we are a good match. good luck in your search " or anything but total silence is just rude and show the true colors of a person
That is so true. Can you imagine if someone were rude and said, "I really cannot stand you!!!"? That wouldn't be great for self-esteem.
Quote:
Originally Posted by ocnjgirl
What should she have done? I've gone on dates and not been attracted to the guy but still been friendly and social. You make the best of it, why have an awkward dinner? If they ask me out again, I'll tell them I don't feel chemistry, but I'm certainly not going to behave differently toward him over dinner than I would a friend or anyone else. Just saying "it's nice to meet you" doesn't mean anything, it's a standard pleasantry. Trying to read things into what your date is saying or doing is not good, IMO.
Really ? The considerate thing to do is REPLY , a simple " thank you for taking time to meet me but I'm sorry to say I don't think we are a good match. good luck in your search " or anything but total silence is just rude and show the true colors of a person
We only know half the story. Obviously something was done to weird this woman out, as she hastily took a cab back home.
What advice would you give your daughter? If you are creeped out it is best just to walk away.
We only know half the story. Obviously something was done to weird this woman out, as she hastily took a cab back home.
What advice would you give your daughter? If you are creeped out it is best just to walk away.
Glad you asked ! I have daughters and I tell them to be respectful, have good manners , be nice and treat people the way you would like to be treated. My daughters have the guts to tell guys when its not going to work out.
We aren't talking about a stranger on the street here. They went on a first date to meet. He deserves more respect than to be totally ignored.
Ok I just looked at a youtube video and I think I may have an idea of what I did to possibly turn her off
During our date a homeless guy walked up to our table and I just kind of looked at him and never said anything. she was the only one who responded to him
Last edited by Simtropico; 06-09-2014 at 09:48 PM..
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
